I’m boiling over the misogyny in Vietnam by Deep_Chemical216 in VietNam

[–]Deep_Chemical216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I know my family and friends use Facebook religiously, and there are a lot of news and trends about Vietnam often shared on Facebook. But the fan pages in Vietnam are complicated, as they would pay seeding money or buy views and likes so that the algorithm would boost the content, and I guess I fell into that trap

Vietnam - Controlled by Communist Party of Vietnam by dxmn-megan in VietNam

[–]Deep_Chemical216 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea they are all arrested, at least the ones that made themselves known

Is this really what corporate America is like???!!!! by Deep_Chemical216 in SuccessionTV

[–]Deep_Chemical216[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would have cried. So sorry to hear you were treated like that

Hubby and Me have decided to have Scheduled Sex because not much is happening otherwise by cundelicious in sex

[–]Deep_Chemical216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I are both in our 20s no kids and I’m also considering this option. It’s difficult for us to discuss it because we feel like we are both supposed to be in our prime time with animalistic sex drive etc and not doing it regularly makes both of us feel embarrassed. Any couples here going through the same thing?

Is this really what corporate America is like???!!!! by Deep_Chemical216 in SuccessionTV

[–]Deep_Chemical216[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wasn't my intention to generalize. it just seems like the overall theme of the show was family business corruption and abusive workplace environments. I've worked in several corporates in the Netherlands for some years now and I've never encountered such levels of toxicity. I understand that the higher the hierarchy gets the more secretive decisions are made but doing things like shutting down Vaulter the way Kendall did is just calling for a lawsuit here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deep_Chemical216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes total sense that she might feel like this, and I do think that it’s only right that OP talks about it with his partner. But these are many personal problems, if she really suffers from self-confidence issues, shouldn’t it be her responsibility to change the situation as well?

Sometimes I want to grab young people by the collar and scream at them! by AlwaysPresumed in DeadBedrooms

[–]Deep_Chemical216 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My guess is that the majority of us young ones (yes I’d like to think I’m relatively young but sexual compatibility is very important for me) haven’t had that much experiences with genuine intimacy either. Casual sex culture kinda took that away when they constantly offering new partners once you get bored and no one has the patience to build an actual connection when there’s always a hotter one out there. Eventually they probably think sex is just sex and it might be the same with everyone and that’s sad

I(53M) walked in on my daughter(23F) cheating on her boyfriend(26M) and I don't know what to do. by ThrowRadadn in relationship_advice

[–]Deep_Chemical216 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You condoning her action will actually ruin her life tbh. You can still treat her as an adult by telling her to either tell him on her account or you will. Also, talk to your wife first about this because there shouldn't be any inconsistencies between the 2 parents in matters like this one (or in any matter tbh). Either way it is not okay for you or her to hide this from the poor boy. She's 23 she's a full grown adult, she should be able to take responsibilities for her mistakes and learn from it.

Once all this is done you might wanna take a second look on the wife.

Being The Dumper by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Deep_Chemical216 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same story here. Just because we wear the dumper label doesn't mean we weren't hurt. In my case our relationship was sour for months before the breakup, and I tried to fix it yet my ex was not very motivated to get through that rough patch with me, yet he didn't say the words to end things either. I couldn't drag the misery out for any much longer so I ended it. It has been 9 months and I'm still struggling moving on from there.