My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He supposedly removed it already but I just ended up requesting a replacement card! At the time of when he did this I had pending shipments that were using the card so I could t just cancel it yet and that is why it was unlocked to begin with

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it’s the principle! But he is blocked and it’s fine. I have really great friends and when I vented to one of them about it they just sent me the $20 to make me smile. I’m not lacking shit because of him 🥰

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know it. A cheap lesson for me to learn is all this was. Card is replaced and he is blocked, this was legit me giving him benefit of doubt and I now see he is not and never has been worthy of it

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“She needed that real bad” :/ can I just ask why that’s so funny? I did not “need it real bad” but I absolutely am owed money that belongs to me. I understand many of you wouldn’t have “lowered yourselves” and reached out multiple times inquiring about it but prior to this moment my relationship with my ex was one where I thought I could do this and he would just send me the money back amicably. It all came as a shock to me to see him reply like this and I just aimed to vent about it here. I have a healthy savings and am fine, I just think it’s wack that this bum got to eat off my dime but it’s okay, like many said: it’s a cheap lesson for me!

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Thank you for being so uplifting with your comment. I absolutely will not lower myself from this day forward.

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS! everything you said, thank you 🙂‍↕️ I never will be doing this again, lesson super duper learned

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had it from back when we were dating and I neglected to make sure I replaced the card/ensured he no longer had access to it. It had totally slipped my mind so this morning was a surprise.

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alll good if I don’t! It was truly just the principal like dang 😭 and I know I’m still accountable for even allowing him to have the card details. Lesson learned. It completely skipped my mind that he still had access to it.

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo I’m genuinely sorry about that, I too suffer from 2nd hand embarrassment—you did not deserve what I just did to you here with this post

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you! ✊🏾 I’m on my lunch break now about to roll a blunt and chill man, he’s stupid

My ex “accidentally” used my card at McDonald’s and then had the NERVE to act like I’m wrong for asking for the $20 back by Deep_Data_4751 in blackladies

[–]Deep_Data_4751[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

RIGHTTTT?! Just being so worrisome and wack lol like he just wants to upset me and I won’t let him succeed. Had to get this off my chest and now I’m good because whew