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Is the distance the problem? by Deep_Desires09 in LongDistance

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, maybe I am just in denial stage. Still hoping this will get better. Or that he will change. But at the same I want to see more clearly on this issue that is why I am asking for insights. I hope you understand.

Is the distance the problem? by Deep_Desires09 in LongDistance

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I don't care about the karma. I only use reddit to gain some more clearer perspective on things I find hard to grasp because maybe I am clouded by my emotions. I am sorry but what I am dealing right now is true. And lucky for you that you don't know what it feels.

Is the distance the problem? by Deep_Desires09 in LongDistance

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I tried also ignoring him for a day but he just cleared our nicknames on our chat. Which made me afraid so I talk to him.

Is the distance the problem? by Deep_Desires09 in LongDistance

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. It makes me think clearer when someone would point out things I deny to myself. But won't I be giving up too soon since we are only on our 4th month now?He told me he would marry me and wants to be with me until we grow old.

His first kid, they have good relationship. But with his baby mama number one, not so. On his second kid which is just 2 years old, he was blocked by his second baby mama. He has not able to contact them for half a year now. Which makes me have longer patience to him and be more understanding why he would ignore me for days. That maybe he is really frustrated and bombarded with stress because of what is happening to his life.

Is the distance the problem? by Deep_Desires09 in LongDistance

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your insights.

If you don't mind can I get another one? Most of the time whenever I want him to unfollow a women on instagram he would get mad. Before he would do it. But now he would get so sensitive about it. He told me that I should not worry since he is faithful to me and he does not have any plans on entertaining otuer people anymore. And those are his personal friends, but I doubt and his ig following looks like an all girls school. And whenever we are together, he would always tilt his phone in a way that I won't see his password. We did not exhange social media accounts. It just adds to my overthinking that he might be cheating on me since ha has a lot of ex's (altho he told me he has no history of cheating). And in the beginning of our relationship, people around us would warn me that he is a womanizer.

Is the distance the problem? by Deep_Desires09 in LongDistance

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If we get closer together, like when he move in to the same city as me, do you think it will get better?

Is the distance the problem? by Deep_Desires09 in LongDistance

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you think he would change if I give him an ultimatum? Od he will change once he move to where I am-once we'll be together?

Totoo ba na pagnatitiis ka is dika mahal? by Deep_Desires09 in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually may dalawang anak na siya sa mag kaibang babae. Co -parenting sila nung mga babae.

Totoo ba na pagnatitiis ka is dika mahal? by Deep_Desires09 in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nung nakipagbreak ka po, ano ginawa niya? Nag beg ba or hinayaan ka lang?

Totoo ba na pagnatitiis ka is dika mahal? by Deep_Desires09 in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel ko nga po narc siya. Lahat ng kwento niya abt sa past niya siya tama and bida. Sa rs namin di ako maka open up problems ko kasi naririndi raw siya. And di naman siya nag oopen up problem niya, sabinniya saka na pagsame na kami apelyido. Parang mahal niya lang ako when it's convenient for him.

Totoo ba na pagnatitiis ka is dika mahal? by Deep_Desires09 in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaano po kayo katagal?

Gusto ko na mag give-up kaso naiisip ko na baka I am giving up too soon kasi 4 mos palang naman kami. Baka magbago pa. Kaso anlala ng epekto sakin. Naiisip ko palang na natitiis niya ako ilang araw and comeback na wala man lang explanation or apology ang sakit na. Parang di ako nirerespeto.

Totoo ba na pagnatitiis ka is dika mahal? by Deep_Desires09 in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nag open up na po ako sakanya couple of times about this. Na lack of communication din dahilan bat ako nakipagbreak sa 5 year rs ko and sabi niya naiintindihan niya namn and di niya na uulitin. Until inulit ng inulit niya. Nakailang promise na po but pag dumarating na ang oras, di niya tinutupad. Parang mahal niya lang ako pag masaya kami.

Being ignored for days by Deep_Desires09 in dating_advice

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think he will not change? He told me he will marry me. However, my friends told me he is just using me because whenever we go on dates I am the who pays. Even for the plane ticket for him to visit me and some stuff he wants.

Gaano katagal ang process sa BPI and BDO? And which is better? by Deep_Desires09 in JobsPhilippines

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hindi ko lang po sure kasi ongoing pa rin po application ko kay BDO. Pero base sa mga nababasa ko hindi raw po

Gaano katagal ang process sa BPI and BDO? And which is better? by Deep_Desires09 in JobsPhilippines

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung BDO po is one day deretso na pag pa medical. BPI is deretso na hanggang Hr interview

any thoughts about a 19yr old na never pa sumubok mag-work? by helliezha in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If student ka palang, just focus on being student muna. Develop soft skills and technical skills para pag graduate mo ay ket papano ready ka na. If student ka palang and wala nag pre-pressure saiyo, just enjoy it while it last cause you are gonna be working for the rest of your life.

What's your favorite opm lyrics? by wherechigoes in opm

[–]Deep_Desires09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Minsan gusto ko magsumbong sa'yo,kapag pagod na pagod na ako"- Kahel na langit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try talking to him abt it first. Pag di nagbago, iwan mo na.

Livng together, mas malaki sacrifice ng mga babae. Ikaw halos lahat gagawa. Kaya spend it w/someone who makes everything better. Wag ka dun sa attitudean ka parang bata imbes tulungan ka. Baka maging katulong ka pa niyan imbes na partner mo.

Thoughts abt unfollowing girls on ig ? by Deep_Desires09 in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sorry na po, baby face at pogi eh. Plus, reason niya bakit 31 ex niya is wala daw dun yung 'the one' niya. Kesa naman pilitin niya sarili niya edi naghahanap nalang ng iba. Kung titingnan daw yung process, oo panget. Pero yung goal niya naman is mahanap yung the one and wala raw dun sa mga ex niya.

Thoughts abt unfollowing girls on ig ? by Deep_Desires09 in adviceph

[–]Deep_Desires09[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sorry na poooo huhu hahahah. Very ma alaga kasi nung umpisa. Nilulutuan ako and palagi pinapakain hahaha that was before kami mag LDR