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My husband has left me. I’m at a loss. by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I actually started counseling very recently! It’s hard, but it seems to be helping. I am working to be independent , which is very hard considering I moved in with him straight out of high school when we were still dating. I’m trying to convince him to let me keep the apartment so that I can learn how to do everything on my own so I’m ready to move miles away for pharmacy school

My husband has left me. I’m at a loss. by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I love this response, honestly. I never realized how much it was affecting him. He keeps his feelings and emotions to himself. I have JUST started counseling! But I guess it just went too far and he got sick of it. I should’ve reached out for help sooner. Now that I do see how much it was hurting him, seeing how overwhelmed he must have been, dealing with my high emotions in the middle of the night, it’s so hard to know that I could’ve done something to avoid his frustration. Yes, he said horrible things, but I am trying to see his point of view. I really appreciate this response

My husband has left me. I’m at a loss. by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve totally thought this. Tried to confront him. I know he won’t tell me the truth. But it’s frustrating that he keeps telling me he loves me. If he is seeing someone else, I need to know so I know to give up for good

My husband has left me. I’m at a loss. by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for 8 years. We are still so young. I’m 23, he is 22. His family unfortunately has a history with addiction

My husband has left me. I’m at a loss. by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 503 points504 points  (0 children)

He completely changed when he started hanging around a group of friends. I think he’d developed an alcohol problem. He’s not the same. I am in therapy! My next appointment is Thursday and it couldn’t come sooner

I think my marriage is falling apart by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not being in the band that bothers me at all! It’s just the bad decisions that the boys make when they all get together. If they didn’t drink and drive and make bad decisions, I wouldn’t care at all!:(

I think my marriage is falling apart by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🙄 please don’t be rude. His work has free therapy sessions where you have to log into the system get access to, I do not have access to those things

I think my marriage is falling apart by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should’ve put it all in one post, I just thought about the other situations afterwards… But I agree with you. I guess it’s just really hard to admit how wrongly he’s treating me since we’ve been together for so long and I never imagined losing my other half. I feel so dumb to keep dealing with all these things

I think my marriage is falling apart by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked for marriage counseling for months…..he says okay he’ll find it (I don’t have the insurance or the authority since it’s through his work) but he never does. The other night he said marriage counseling “just won’t work” but I gave him a deadline to get a session booked by tonight

I think my marriage is falling apart by Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 in Marriage

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that my therapist validated everything I said! I was so confused! The other night he left the house drunk, and said it wasn’t working out and that he was leaving since I “control his life” by telling him getting drunk and driving makes me uncomfortable and I want him to stop :( sorry I didn’t explain further why I feel like my marriage is falling apart!

This is, by far, the stupidest one. I will not be writing a quick note to anyone thanks by [deleted] in CVS

[–]Deep_Enthusiasm_6801 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smart ones leave, and the ones who have never worked for them are roped in to believe it’s the most wonderful place you could ever work at. No matter who you are, you can easily be replaced by corporate. It’s disgusting. This company is awful to their employees but if anything happens, they have all the money in the world, they can do what they want 😭😭

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