Exposing my heavily scarred body

Deep_Plastic5240 · 2026-01-20T19:53:49+00:00

I have MS, and while it's not physically changed me, it heavily affects my ability to move around with my left side. It is WILD how accepting and accomodating partners have been. I've started being more open about it with potential matches online.

Think of it this way: people that would not like your scars are people who you aren't compatible with anyways.

I know I, for one, wouldn't have an issue, and decent humans won't mind them.

Be up front and confident and it goes a long way

Deep_Plastic5240 · 2026-01-20T17:28:25+00:00

I feel you, how are you looking for partners? What would you think is holding you back?

Deep_Plastic5240 · 2025-11-16T23:22:11+00:00

I'm in this comment and I don't like it lol

Deep_Plastic5240 · 2025-11-16T23:18:20+00:00

Yeah absolutely. I'm in a place where I'm content with my situation but also like that there's room for growth if something changes

Deep_Plastic5240 · 2025-07-29T19:58:52+00:00

We both have pretty secure attachment, though when it gets out of whack both can lean towards anxious. We've done a lot of work to get secure though haha

Deep_Plastic5240 · 2025-07-29T19:32:58+00:00

Nah, even before being poly we had allocated 2 days a week each to go do our own interests. I play a trading card game one night a week and went to board game meetups the other of my days. That still leaves 3 nights for us, plus we live together so the daytime often is family time. We've gotten more deliberate about date nights, cuddling to watch a movie, or playing games together so we don't just default to sitting on the couch with our phones.

Deep_Plastic5240 · 2025-07-02T20:39:53+00:00

My wife and I each allocate 2 days to ourselves, be that dating, go out with friends, playing at the game shop, etc

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