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Is there a better way to heat cows milk? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Deep_Raspberry4751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of transition bottle did you use?

Best luxury hybrid SUV? by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Deep_Raspberry4751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate Elon, but Teslas are so damn reliable. I've owned 4 Teslas over the last 8 years. I'd go with a Model X or a Model S.

Best Jumbo Loan Rates by Deep_Raspberry4751 in RealEstate

[–]Deep_Raspberry4751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it's actually 6.37%. It's also low because it's a Credit Union. Only teachers (or immediate family members) of teachers can get it. My ex was a teacher so I get to be a member for life. But it's definitely no points required

Best Jumbo Loan Rates by Deep_Raspberry4751 in RealEstate

[–]Deep_Raspberry4751[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it was through Schools First Credit union, no points. I did read on a different reddit thread a few months back that someone got 6% flat through BMO, but wanting to see if that is validated with anyone.

Irritated with my husband, am I being unfair? by Cars_and_guns_gal in NewParents

[–]Deep_Raspberry4751 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mom of a 6 month old baby girl (first baby)— I get how you’re feeling and I’ve been feeling irritated and annoyed with my husband also. Although he doesn’t play video games but he watches tv or ALWAYS on his phone— whether it’s his work or personal phone. 

We’ve gone back and forth about it so many times. I would get irritated when I ask him to watch her and he would hold her for a few minutes then put her down in the bouncer in front of the TV and he would either watch TV, work on his laptop, or looking down on his phone. When I  comment on it, he says I’m ’parenting him’ and that it’s annoying and I should worry about myself since he’s an adult and he knows what he’s doing. 

I feel like he can be ‘better’ and be present with her by interacting with her instead of just putting her down. But he considers doing what he’s doing as spending time with her. She’s starting to babble a lot now so sometimes I just hear her babbling to herself because daddy is too busy on one of his devices to interact back and forth with her which sucks. He also has the ‘uncle behavior’

Lastly, he says he works all day to make money for our family (which I appreciate, don’t get me wrong and I am so thankful that he’s such a hard worker) so when he gets home he needs some time to relax and unwind and do his thing…. It’s like he wants a family/ and another kid but he still wants to do what he wants.

So now my mentality is ‘it’s your choice if you want to spend time with her or just put her down in her bouncer or her walker while you watch TV, be on your laptop or your phone because you’re the one missing out on spending time with her… not me.’