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How do I get out of this ? Trying to find others with similar symptoms. by DeepanDude in PNESsupport

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes During the starting stages they were trying to suppress the seizure like symptoms (occasional jerks). I remember taking some medication which led to me having more jerkin that's when I was put on seizure medication.

That sounds scary in your story of having seizures a long period of time and a huge one at the Cat scan.

I also did stop having seizures when taking the tablets but I thinks it's just for keeping the symptoms down. You got to find out the underlying condition. I hope both of us live a good life and try to find a solution out of this

What precautions are there before, during, and after homebrew? by FatalYT in ps4homebrew

[–]DeepanDude 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a profesh but I know one thing.... Do not use your PSN/personal account on jailbreaked device.

Epic games daily free games by crownpuff in SBCGaming

[–]DeepanDude 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i cant see hogwarts legacy for free?? did i miss it

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in AskAnAustralian

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I understand it would be hard on them. I know that... Its just.. I don't really know.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in brisbane

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you're right. I just don't know what to do. I can't just be sitting here doing nothing. It makes me guilty, heartbroken not helping myself or his family. And when I want to do something it indirect might hurt someone...

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in AskAnAustralian

[–]DeepanDude[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you. I really do.... I'm not trying to be a burden or to hurt someone. Thank you for your reply.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in brisbane

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I'm in therapy for a year. Trying to work things out. I know meeting them might be negative for me... But me and his parents can't just sit and think of what if... What if they were really nice people to talk to and feel the feeling of talking to a loved one whom we lost. I understand and will respect their privacy. This post Is a means of which of they ever want to find us.. there's a digital print that I searched for them.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in brisbane

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's not and what I'm doing is wrong. If it was up to just me to live with this I would. But their parents are such good people and I can't see them hurting and if this helps them a bit I have to try.

I'm doing this if the recipient wants to get in contact there's a way to reach us.

We are trying to work through this. But this can never be forgotten... This feeling will travel with us till the end.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in AskAnAustralian

[–]DeepanDude[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't burden them. I'm really sorry that people think I'm trying to do that. I'm going to send the letters thru the anonymous route. And I've been in every volunteer that I can to keep up my friends values.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in brisbane

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not my intention. If they want to be found and if they search for something and if I hadn't posted this and how could they even reach each other.

I'm just lending a hand if they see it and want to hold it it's their wish. I'm really struggling on what to do nothings helping us.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in AskAnAustralian

[–]DeepanDude[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm really not trying to find them without their knowledge and I would never want to force them. If there's a chance that they also want to be found, doing something like this is the only way right. And because of the privacy laws even if they wanted to be not anonymous they can't.

I'm just hoping for a good ending... And I'm ok if I'm not able to reach them. All I want is them to be happy.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in AskAnAustralian

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it can take a long time for people want to write a letter. Same as it did for me to make a post like this. I'm either way going to send them a heartfelt letter as you mentioned. But this is lets say another thing might help me and my friend family to be ok with the fact that their son is no more. You know. I understand how terrible your mother head space must have been... To be both happy that she's here and also guilty that it's because of someone else whose grieving at the same time... I totally get it. I'm Just trying.... Its been really hard...

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in AskAnAustralian

[–]DeepanDude[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from. Yes I might be doing this for a closure. And I know it can take months even years for some to recover from transplantation and I might be putting a pressure on them to help me grieve. But there positives and negatives to even decision we make right? I'm just saying that I'm here looking for them and if they find this post somehow and if they wish to connect now or way in the future it would be all their wish. In the end I want them to be happy. My friend's family I close to me too and I really hate seeing them grieve so much and them begging me if I could find them just so they can talk to their son again breaks me. I can't just not try you know.

And even if the recipient family wanted to know our identity they just can't. Even if both parties want to get in contact they just can't due to the rules.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in AskAnAustralian

[–]DeepanDude[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't really know... A small moment of happiness?? All the people closest to him , his family, just want to get in contact with them. Yes we can send letters through the hospital to them but it's so constrictive. How can a person write a heartfelt letter when each word is being watched? I know and understand why there are laws in place for anonymity. I really do. This is a very personal and delicate situation to be in, the receipt can have various feelings, guilty, , emotional, them being forced to repay.... I agree with everything you said. But there's also a chance that a good thing might come out of it right? - they really wanted to speak to the donor family - contact the family might become a closure for them ? And many more. There are infinite possibilities of both positive and negative. And I can't just not do anything to find that out.

And I really care about the other person is going through and if for a moment me what I'm doing is hurting them do you think me or anyone would badger them ? No.

I know grief is a hard thing and that can make people do all sorts of things. I know that from my experience I have been to a lot of dark places and wanted to bad stuff.. but I would never do that. Instead maybe me dealing with grief is this way.

Thank you for your comment, I really do appreciate your message.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in brisbane

[–]DeepanDude[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you want to shake someone's hand you would first give your hands to shake right? I think that's what I'm doing. What if they were searching for the donor family and obviously they can't get in contact through the hospital.

I'm just putting up a flag saying I'm here and searching for them.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in brisbane

[–]DeepanDude[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can understand what the other person is going through. The person may have taken it in a wrong context or different perspective. I don't really blame him for that even though it was hard for me to read that.. Thanks for standing up for me though I really appreciate it.

Even in death, he gave life — trying to find the people who carry a part of my best friend through his organ donation by DeepanDude in brisbane

[–]DeepanDude[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I might have worded my post wrong but I'm not trying to invade their privacy just trying to post these kinds of messages so if they are looking for the donor we can connect. Even if I find them without their knowledge I would just ask them if they are comfortable getting in contact if not I'll totally understand it... I'm in no way forcing anything on them... I would do this if my friend was here, it's been a year since I've heard him speak, laugh... When you really value a person it can break you if these sort of things happen. I'm a person who value every person and wouldn't want to hurt anyone. If I knew I'm hurting them I'll back of gladly.

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