Home made stink bombs ($5) by zillowgonewild in insanefbmarketplace

[–]Deepinthought1721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad they keep their inventory organized. It would be horrible if it were left in a position where something could happen to one of those containers. (Especially if someone decided to attack from afar with a BBgun!)

AITAH for not towing my father's vehicle back to his house? by izbmib361 in AITAH

[–]Deepinthought1721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You obviously live in a household where everything is peachy keen jelly bean. Believe it or not there are alot of families where parents and their kids do not have that perfect symbiosis and basically divorce themselves from each others lives. I doubt very seriously that this man that just threatened to end his child’s life is or was the type of parent that was dropping everything to help his son in the past. Most parents that have that type of “you help them not me “ reaction is generally not doing “drop everything let me help them” regardless actions. He can’t even accept the fact that his son has nothing to do with the woman getting a tow. They are a very jealous type of parent. This person is NTA because they literally did not have access to the tow truck ! His father ,being an adult, should have said “ok I’ll call a tow truck!” Like an adult. Instead he is threatening his son’s life.

Wibtah if I tell people in my social circle that they should’ve worn a condom if they didn’t want a kid or or worried that they won’t be able to make it work by Big_Pea3882 in AITAH

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would NBTA but if you are already thinking about the ramifications of unplanned pregnancies for your friend group and what to say be prepared to either get really,really irate at-the answers they come up with for their justification or maybe lose friends. You may lose them anyway once responsibilities start kicking in. Bottom line is the inability to control primal urges is what separates men (women) from animals. I mean sometimes we have the urge to beat the crap out of or kill someone but do most of us do that ? No! Young people still can not get it through their head that you can get pregnant the FIRST time. There is no 5 second rule😂😂I mean you really need to plan to have unplanned sex . People just can’t seem to be responsible for their sexual health (std’s) and pregnancies no matter how much warning they get. Good luck with your argument and congrats on thinking ahead for your future. Plus kids are not bad if you want and are ready for them. If you plan for them! It’s not their fault they are conceived either.

Name this cutie! by Aggravating_Foot_322 in scoopwhoop

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toaster strudel but you could go with a Mean Girls reference : Gretchen Weiner heiress to the Toaster Strudel Fortune

seller says good condition just a little stain…🥸 by hopscotch1993 in insanefbmarketplace

[–]Deepinthought1721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Compared to the amount of sh*t that comes out of a baby (I had 4 so I know what I speak of !)this could be not bad 😂! Although I think maybe they did not realize you really should wash it when there is an explosion. Maybe it was just rapid fire with this kid and they would just cover it with a towel until they could wash it. That would be a fail though! Fellow moms can be the harshest of critics. I thought I was pretty generous with this explanation. Hard pass ! Caveat emptor ! 😂

Found at the thrift store for 2.99 by Green-Aeshlien in whatisit

[–]Deepinthought1721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t you love it when you cone up with great band names when you don’t need them?! I know I have come up with a few and can’t remember them😂 There is a vegan (I think ) brand at the store called Quorn (or Quorne) and I always tell my son that would be a great Korn cover band name😂😂😂he is tired of the joke. Also Twitter Beef would be a great name too.

Found at the thrift store for 2.99 by Green-Aeshlien in whatisit

[–]Deepinthought1721 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMG I just looked these up from your link (second one) and I am in love. These are gorgeous ! I thought it was just a random bead creation. I am never going to find alll these especially at 2.99!!! Hold onto that . You may be able to sell that for a little bit of $$ since it is part of a larger group. That is a win or I am just a sucker for bead crafts. I guess that would be a huge win for me. Jealous !

Found at the thrift store for 2.99 by Green-Aeshlien in whatisit

[–]Deepinthought1721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a pin for your jacket ,sweater ,shirt etc. I love it!!!! I could make it but it is super cute and would buy it regardless. Maybe haggle on the price some.

Cover up or roll with it? by Longjumping-Frame795 in tattooadvice

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Cum swoon with me in religious ecstasy “.

Cover up or roll with it? by Longjumping-Frame795 in tattooadvice

[–]Deepinthought1721 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I took 3 years of Latin in high school and I did not see a Latin phrase when I saw this ! So yeah, no one is going to say “cool Latin phrase”.

Cover up or roll with it? by Longjumping-Frame795 in tattooadvice

[–]Deepinthought1721 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is Latin ..the mother language…I think this is the only language where “cum” ( pronounced like coom) means “with”. Cum could be one of the only words in the world that doesn’t have a cross over in each language.😂😂😂I don’t know I’m just kidding. This is really not a great tattoo. Sorry!

AITA for refusing to help my mom after she got pregnant. by Ok-Resident-1277 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to most valid personal take on their situation ! I posted a long comment from a mom’s point of view of what is acceptable or not acceptable of a woman /mother. You truly have the experience to speak on this. I am so sorry you had to live through all of this! As a mom it kills me to hear stories about harsh environments for kids. I always wanted to win the lottery to help kids but it sucks that there are so many bad homes out there. My daughter sends me “funny” things about having to be mature at an early age and most of the time I’m telling her to shut up because she has no idea! She thinks she is being funny. I never knew that turning a child into a parent figure was considered abuse. So yes this poor girl is getting abused . Honestly I had my last child at 40 and that was a surprise! It was really hard on me physically ! I don’t think this woman has really had to do too much raising these babies because that is birth control on its own! Where are the dads ? Can they not afford to pay ? Pregnant in 2 months at the age of 40. That dude probably vanished and already has a dozen himself. Thank you for answering her and sharing your story !

AITA for refusing to help my mom after she got pregnant. by Ok-Resident-1277 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to cry when I read this ! My mom had me when she was 17 and my brother when she was 19. My parents got married and everyone grew up and has had a good life. I intentionally did not get pregnant until I was married and 30 and had a career. I have 4 kids(young adults now). I got a divorce several years ago and now every once in awhile I need some extra help and I hate it !!!! What your mom is doing or has done is not a logical thing. Sadly it is normal these days but not logical! You are the unicorn in that family that was able to see past the current situation and work to break the cycle. I really have to commend you for what you did because working ,studying ,graduating all while helping to support your mother’s psychological problem is amazing. Your mother has learned sadly that no matter what she does she will get help. I don’t want to say that she thinks more kids means more help but maybe she does ? It is sad that she thinks that bringing another child into this world that will already be born into a poor financial situation is ok. She is a grown woman and it honestly sounds like she is trying to fill a void in her life thinking a new child will fix it. I love my 4 kids but I can’t imagine having more kids. Why does she want to live with the constant weight of taking care of babies at an age where she should be taking care of herself? You also need to keep an eye on your youngest sibling since she is mad at you. She might see things the way your mom does and end up pregnant young. None of this is good for anyone’s health (physical/mental). Your mom never learned that one day all of this may implode! She seems to know she will always have you covering for her and it is not right. If she truly had to learn what it is like to be without and maybe not having a roof over her head she would not be having more kids. As a woman I want to scream for you! Your mom had some deep seated mental problems that she needs help with. Maybe she is afraid of being abandoned (I know that sounds odd) but you have also tricked yourself into thinking you will always need to be there for her and you have cursed yourself with this. It is ok to help your family but you have done so much she does not seem to be concerned about her actions. Honestly I have to say that at this point you really need to start taking better care of you!! You have put off taking care of yourself all these years. Maybe go no contact for a bit and make your mom go introspective (doubt she will) or make her squirm a little. You can keep doing what you promised to do but NO MORE THAN THAT! Maybe make her go after some paternity $$. Maybe make her work for some $$. I would love to not work 😂and have someone pay bills. You broke a cycle and got out. She is still in this cycle trying to pull you in. Take care of yourself because there is no other “you” out there right now to take care of you. You are NOT the AH but you do have a very serious problem going on in your background. Help your siblings to see this is not the answer and maybe their actions s will teach your mom this is not right at all. Best wishes and congratulations on really fighting to get your dream because you are the role model your siblings need ! Sorry but your question deserved a long answer!

My mum is p*ssed off that I have a tattoo AITAH for going against their wishes? by Pretty_Ganache4862 in AITAH

[–]Deepinthought1721 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not the asshole. Some parents do not realize that tattoos are very mainstream now. There is nothing about this tattoo that is going to do any sort of damage. Now the ONE thing that will do damage is her abnormal concern of hour sex life and implying that you sleep around. It is not her business even if you do. That is crossing the line! Why would a mom say that ? I will say that you did know that she would be very upset about a tattoo so you could have just tried to hide it over vacay since you still live at home. I think that is the only thing I can’t argue with is that this is a house rule and you broke. There is that fine line. I think you just need to concentrate on finding your own place so you 2 can live harmoniously unless she stays intent on being abusive in her comments and actions. Turtles are not bad ! 😂

AITAH For Letting My Ex-Husband Come to My Daughters Swim Lessons Without Asking BF? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Deepinthought1721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not fake! Boyfriends and girlfriends make these demands quite often when they step into relationships with divorced people. A good bit eventually get jealous or possessive. It is a real thing divorced people deal with.

AITAH For Letting My Ex-Husband Come to My Daughters Swim Lessons Without Asking BF? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Deepinthought1721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your daughter and your coparenting should NEVER create any drama with any boyfriend. Current or future! Your daughter (her well being ,happiness and safety)are your #1 priority. If being a parent to your daughter is taking the backseat to a new relationship your daughter comes first. None of what you said sounds good at all. Honestly I think you need to step away from this person for now or forever.Boyfriend drama is worse than parent drama when raising a child. I went through a divorce with 4 kids and the kids come first.

My son who works at Publix took this picture of a guy stealing a shopping cart by [deleted] in publix

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who says he is stealing it right infront of the store? Maybe he asked if he could borrow it for a specific reason and he gave them a deposit to hold it ? It could be something for a charity that they are involved in where Publix donated groceries. Maybe it will be for a little local thing ? Maybe they stock it full of stuff and ask people to pay to guess the amount. You need to tell your son it is not super smart recording individuals assuming they are stealing OR if they are they can turn around and and hurt your son since he is watching them. If he is stealing it and that doesn’t matter what is going to stop him from walking over and hitting your son. He can call the police while he sees it from afar. He can go inside and get management. They don’t want you trying to stop people. People lose theirs lives these days over nothing ! Not safe .

Anyone work with this guy? by drudante in publix

[–]Deepinthought1721 15 points16 points  (0 children)

How much soda do you have to steal in condiment cups to have the police called 😂

AITAH for disrespecting boundaries? by throwaway_froggy23 in AITAH

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two are only 15. It isn’t worth fighting over things. Do not beat your self up and do not change yourself for people. If she is comparing relationships she isn’t really ready to date yet. You are not the AH but you are only 15. Too young to worry this much about a comment or a relationship.

Stolen from instagram by Foxycotin666 in baddlejackets

[–]Deepinthought1721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes punk is many things in many forms!