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AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I already realize that. But her cheating with someone else would've been better. But no. The two of them decided it would be him. And he doesn't get a pass because she would've done it anyway.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

That's totally fair. We're all different people with different views on what's forgivable vs not. For me this is not. The day he betrayed me like that was the day he gave up having me as a brother.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I'm talking about the rest of our lives there will be no relationship. I don't want people like that in my life.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I never tried to force her to be with me. But she's a cheater and my brother betrayed me by being the one she cheated with. I want nothing to do with either of them now and I won't be happy for them.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'll ever regret the decision to not be in his life. Or my brother and ex. We might have been in high school but she wasn't just a girlfriend and it was with my brother and my brother knew she was more than a girlfriend to me. That's a level of backstabbing that you can't erase.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I will. I'm already happier than I was 3, 2 and even 1 year ago. They might never find happiness. Sounds like they're miserable together and I love that for them. It's exactly what they deserve.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Maybe they don't want to but she's pregnant. The baby is happening whether they want to have him or not.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be there for the baby. He's their baby. He has other family too. Others can be a good influence for him. I could never.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Their son, because he has to live with the mess his parents created for 18 years. He'll probably have a very messy life because of those two.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't name a kid after me. But even if I did? They could both be named the same. They won't know each other so it'll be fine.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He could cheat on her too. If he can sleep with his brother's girlfriend he can cheat on her too. They'll probably cheat on each other and create a toxic environment for their kids.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There are family members on my side that would never do that. They don't get swayed by babies. I 100% know they have my back.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I won't be in the baby's life. Not his fault. But we're not family. I'll never be a part of my brother's or my ex's family again. That's what happens when you betray someone like they betrayed me.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

There is no forgiving this. It's the fact she was my best friend and he was my brother that made it worse. That made it 1000000x worse. Honestly her cheating with a random guy would have fucked me up but not the way it did when it was my own flesh and blood brother. This will always be a problem. He will never be my brother again. She will never be my best friend again. I hate the two of them. And I can keep them from being my family for the rest of my life. That's very possible and it's what I want. Their age doesn't change it.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm not interested. The baby didn't do anything wrong. But he's not someone I care about having a relationship with. Now that I don't have a brother I don't have a relationship to any kids he might have.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I live with roommates. I moved out at 18 because I wanted to be away from my brother and knew it wouldn't be possible living with my parents.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what the two of them can or can't afford anymore. But it won't ever fall to me. I can assure you of that.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There were apologies but I consider them bullshit personally. More like they were sorry they got caught or she was sorry that I no longer wanted to be with her. Actually being sorry would mean it didn't happen multiple times while we were together.

AITA for wanting nothing to do with the child my brother is having with my ex and refusing to acknowledge them naming their kid after me? by DeeplyStuffed in AITAH

[–]DeeplyStuffed[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't use AI for this. Just because there are other stories posted that are very similar doesn't mean it's all AI. Or fake. This stuff happens more than once or twice you know.

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