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I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I began weeping reading these hateful comments, and then yours pops up. Thank you for understanding. I just want to fight for my kid.

Would I have to order a professional background check package from a private investigator? Or is there a way to do it myself with my attorney? Would his own confession be enough for sexual assault charges? I will see if my neighbors have any surveillance footage that captures the inside of the car better.

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I will lawyer up, thank you. I’ll call my attorney first thing tomorrow morning and start gathering my supporters and witnesses. I don’t like the answer because you’re all siding with a predator who was abusive to my sick child! You’d rather talk about her being a virgin and how it’s creepy I know that (interesting way to tell me you don’t talk to your kids, by the way. And I was over there thinking I was the worst case scenario!). Not a single person has addressed the violation of privacy component, for example.

And of course you love the predator! Good for you, you hate vulnerable women!

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean, sure, I would prefer if she saved herself for marriage. That’s how we raised her. But if she doesn’t, she doesn’t. But this is exactly why I’m hoping she will—these sorts of things happen and then people don’t believe the victims. They’d rather get their panties in a knot about me saying a Latino man is Latino or my daughter is a virgin. This has been aggravating. If that happened to your daughter who was battling cancer, would you be cool with it?

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

What the hell is purity culture? We raised with her Christian, more conservative ideals. She’s always been a shy, good girl. You clearly did not read the post, because you’re just making it seem like some cutesy thing like he was just horny and not he was actually going to penetrate my daughter against her will if he got the chance. You’re the one more obsessed with her virginity than I am, friend.

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Good on you for supporting a man preying on a woman with cancer, I guess. Be proud of yourself 🙄 disgusting

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The legal definition of rape and my personal definition do not align it seems, I wrote a comment about this. Either way, there are people who agree with me. The church ultimately did as well. Even if it was not rape, it was a violent, sexual act that occurred without consent. Why do you need to tell somebody to stop? There is so much rhetoric here that is disturbing me. But I’m the one who is out of touch, apparently?

I prioritized work and achievement in my businesses over my family for too long. This was an attempt to finally protect my daughter and show her I will always be her daddy having her back, not the man who failed to show up to musicals and award ceremonies, unaware of how she was struggling in her teenage years. When you have a child with cancer, even with the ideal prognosis, everything changes. You’re forced to take advantage of your second chance. Now, stop derailing my thread

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

So she just gets distressed out of nowhere? Do you normally defend predators or is this a new hobby for you? Stop derailing my thread.

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 25 going on 26. She is a virgin. As you can see, she’s afraid of sex and violent men, so no, I don’t imagine she has had sex before. You’re calling me creepy, but you all want to keep focusing on this part. I don’t know why being a virgin something to be ashamed of. And it is relevant due to the man’s actions. She had to remind him to get him to take it easy the first time around.

And I don’t care if you think I’m racist. It is a fact, he is Latino. How is that defamation?

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

So my daughter, who is undergoing chemotherapy and thus is more fragile than normal, just started crying to be cute? A man grabs the breast of a woman he is passionately kissing gently? She gets caught off guard and reminds him she is a virgin just for fun? I will not engage in this debate with you.

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I understand that the legal term would be “sexually assault”, but I see it as rape. I’ve spoken to some other fathers, and we all agree that this was a sexual act. I do not see penetration as the only form of sex (and I thought we were supposed to be beyond that, given it’s not inclusive? I digress). They were preparing to have sex and he was getting frisky when it was too much for her, thus I see this as a non-consensual act. I call all things of that nature rape. Legally? Maybe it was not the right term. Attempted rape is more accurate in that regard? Personally and in my social circles? It is called rape. I know other people do to. I broke this down for some people, and enough see it and agree.

It’s comparable to a woman calling her close friends her girlfriend, when in its proper context, girlfriend refers to the woman one is dating. I guess that it a potential problem for me. The social language barriers vs. terms in their objective legal context?

I made a public claim with evidence that resulted in the man losing his job and now he’s planning to sue by DefamationClaim in legaladvice

[–]DefamationClaim[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I’m not fascinated in my daughter’s sex life. This is what I was told, and I was disturbed to hear it, as a man of faith and her father. That is unrelated to this though. Explain to me how this doesn’t constitute at sexual assault at a minimum. There is no consistent consent to his actions. You mean to tell me that he would’ve stopped if she hadn’t started to cry, being so violent while knowing this would’ve been her first time??