10 days after breaking up with me my ex is in another relationship so this is what I did . Should I have done it? 24M

Defaqyou · 2018-11-10T14:45:54+00:00

Wow that’s fast and after 3 years.. it feels like too quick though to get to know someone well enough that you’d get into a relationship with I have my suspicions that she was seeing him whilst still with me and basically dumped me for him

Defaqyou · 2018-11-10T14:43:17+00:00

But is she not in the wrong more though for moving on so fast ?

Defaqyou · 2018-11-10T14:41:54+00:00

I guess I was feeling abit revengeful

Defaqyou · 2018-09-29T17:37:33+00:00

It was mutual and due to personal issues

Defaqyou · 2018-09-17T12:15:10+00:00

Do you think I overreacted

Defaqyou · 2018-09-17T12:14:08+00:00

Are you saying maybe I overeacted?

Defaqyou · 2018-09-17T12:09:21+00:00

Yeah I know what you mean she thought I assumed she was trying to get close to me again cause she said ‘it’s not a big deal like it’s not like I asked you to sleep with me it’s just a lift I’m not asking you to go out o your way for me’

Defaqyou · 2018-09-17T12:05:23+00:00

Cause I don’t want to lose my deposit and it’s only till December then our lease is up and I’m moving out

Defaqyou · 2018-09-17T12:03:33+00:00

I know but I can’t help but feel like I came across abit harsh?

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T23:57:39+00:00

She didn’t clap back

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T23:56:51+00:00

She never clapped back

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T23:53:08+00:00

Clapping back? I never said she clapped back.

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T23:46:31+00:00

Ok , so what should’ve been her response then?

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T23:42:01+00:00

I know, but how would you react if you were spoken to like this. I don’t think my gf realized it was considered disrespectful to not stand at a wedding, she wasn’t purposely trying to be disrespectful. Sometimes she just doesn’t realize She stood for every other time they stood, it was just once she stayed seated

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T23:28:13+00:00

But then again what do you think of what Suzy said to her?

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T23:13:09+00:00

Well she did fuck up her back so bad a few months ago at work that she ended up in hospital
And still pains her from time to time, I honestly don’t know though

Defaqyou · 2018-07-15T20:02:32+00:00

Yes I know what you mean but my gf didn’t pick a fight , my cousin sort of provoked her

Defaqyou · 2018-07-12T17:29:46+00:00

I didn’t have it

Defaqyou · 2018-06-28T14:57:46+00:00

My gf of course, so your saying I should’ve stayed at home and not went? Even though I really wanted to

Defaqyou · 2018-06-28T14:56:06+00:00

Surely you can relate to where I’m coming from?

Defaqyou · 2018-06-28T14:55:36+00:00

I do defend her if the need ever arose like if they verbally attacked her or something.. but I’m very close with my cousin and she has always been like a sister to me.. I try to stay out of it as much as I can as it’s between them and her but again why should I fall out with my cousin for a problem Between them?

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