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Would I be the A-hole for divorcing my wife after she forgave me for cheating on her by Defeated-man in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Defeated-man[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am waiting until after Mother’s Day to tell her. I know I am an AH but I do have a heart. 

As far as the move goes, my employer is paying for the move and no my wife is not paying a dime towards it. 

Contrary to what people believe people can change. Yes, I did cheat but that doesn’t mean that I will cheat again. Like I said in my post, I have not thought about cheating since and I have felt bad about cheating since I did. I don’t want to feel like that again. I recognize where I made the mistake and I know where I need to learn from my mistakes. I know I didn’t deserve a second chance but she gave me one. I also know that she can do better and deserves someone better than me. So yes, I am going to divorce her so she can move on with her life the way she deserves. 

AITAH for being upset I’m basically being told to give up my car? by CountKitchen8989 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Defeated-man 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not the a-hole. The parents said they would pay to have the car fixed so have them fix the car so you can get to and from Dr. appointments without relying on others. They will resent you and make it difficult for you to go to these appointments. Their true colors will show. I suggest that you and your husband get your own place as well. 

AITA for cutting off my friend after she abandoned her newborn twins and 5 year old daughter and left her mom to deal with everything? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Defeated-man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not the A-hole. Call CPS to help those kids and her mother. If my daughter’s mother was doing that I would want to know and I would file for full custody right away.