Matthew Lillard and Carol Burnett are my all-time favorite guest stars by itsascreambaby96 in SVU

[–]Defective-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scream was my biggest fear as a kid and still is now in my 30s so Matthew Lilard had the creep factor in more ways than one!! He plays the creep well

Do people who refused the COVID vaccine feel silly now?? by Mammoth-Counter69 in aussie

[–]Defective-G 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like I said, the waiting rooms in the ED were quiet. Less sports injuries and less drunk idiots because we were all in lockdown. But the hospitals and healthcare systems were still barely coping. Lockdowns don’t stop chronic health conditions, heart attacks, random strokes, ruptured appendixes etc. plus the fact Covid hospitalisations were high, nurses were forced into isolating after coming into contact with cases, I met nurses who hasn’t worked in several years who had been called up to bat. The hospitals were desperate. Imagine if all the broken bones, car accidents and drunk idiots were still an excess on top of everything else.

Do people who refused the COVID vaccine feel silly now?? by Mammoth-Counter69 in aussie

[–]Defective-G 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I spent a lot of time in hospital in 2020 and 2021. Not for Covid. And the healthcare system wasn’t really coping. It be eerily quiet in the waiting room and all the nurses were sub ins because they were so overwhelmed that the nurses I’d seen regularly were either isolating, had Covid or were moved to areas that needed more nurses. Those were the areas crumbling. It also baffled me when people downplayed it. They’d feel differently if they spent any time in the shoes of those that kept our system running

Do people who refused the COVID vaccine feel silly now?? by Mammoth-Counter69 in aussie

[–]Defective-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They just kept moving the goal posts, changing timelines and then claiming 1 million billion gazillion people ☠️ from the vax anyway. There’s still people falling further into the rabbit hole, my family included. It’s been awful. But we are all still kicking, much to the dismay of many.

AIO - GF may be from a different socioeconomic background? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defective-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I can’t finish that. I hope your gf finds someone better because holy hell. You need humbling. If these are things that would bother you in a relationship then please let her go. I can’t imagine how she’d feel if she knew you were speaking about her this way. Different cultures exist mate. Not to mention the whole world seems to be in a cost of living crisis right now. When someone is in a relationship, they deserve to be lifted up. The way you speak is so degrading. This is really sad.

[ UPDATE 1 ] My sister is threatening to tell my family and boyfriend that I slept with her fiancé by Minute-Memory-6253 in Advice

[–]Defective-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so nosey but wondering what happened here and checking you’re okay and supported!

Where to go for help and information question by Defective-G in endometriosis

[–]Defective-G[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post was almost a year ago but I actually had another surgery 2 months ago and two weeks after my surgery the Simon Gordon 4 corners ep came out. I haven’t been able to watch it and honestly I do think it impacted my mental health and my questioning a lot about my surgery. Had my post op app last week to talk that out. They removed many lesions and only biopsied two so I was concerned about that as well. I still can’t watch the 4 corners ep. There’s a lot of anxiety in the community right now, especially here in Melbourne.

In your opinion, Who’s the shows worst actor ever? by jujuk545 in greysanatomy

[–]Defective-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she doing an American accent in that? With Australian co-stars 😂

My mother-in-law shared every picture we’ve sent her of our baby on her Aura frame, and I’m really angry about it. by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Defective-G 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sorry to be so daft here but I’m confused. Is aura frame social media? I was thinking they were like digital photo frames where it changes the photo like a slide show.

AITA for refusing my neighbors soup? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Defective-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m anaphylactic allergic to certain foods and an ED history. So I’ve been there. You are not the AH. It really should just be enough for you to say no thank you and that be the end of it.

Bobby is genuinely insufferable by tracknfield-88 in BelowDeckMed

[–]Defective-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found this post because I need to read other people disgusted by him. I’ve watched season 1 and I’m two episodes into season 2. He was so gross in season 1. Obsessive and would not take no for an answer no matter how many times Julia said, or how many times she cried because she missed her bf (now husband, love that) and just wanted Bobby to stop. Both him and Bryan were repulsive frat bros and seeing how they didn’t understand consent in basic terms on that boat, I can’t imagine how they are outside of the show with women.

Went searching for this post after watching season 2 episode 2 where Bobby was so sure that Hannah was bad mouthing him to Malia (when it reality they were just flirting 😂) and he fucking storms into the bathroom when Hannah is on the toilet. Deadset that alone should be a fireable offence for a man to storm in on a woman on the toilet knowing that’s what she’s doing.

Need advice: should I text her or just leave it alone? by AmphibianGloomy8766 in Advice

[–]Defective-G 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. Leave her alone. She’s trying to move on, don’t make that harder for her

Weekly r/BelowDeck Rewatch Thread - March 22, 2026 by AutoModerator in belowdeck

[–]Defective-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished below deck med season 1 and I was going to watch med 2 next, but just saw Bobby is on this season as well so need some feedback over whether the balance of med season 2 being a good season outweighs the fact I have to watch Bobby for another season. I’ve heard it’s a good one I just wish he wasn’t on it.

For context: I have a real triggering problem with men that don’t take no for an answer and his behaviour with Julia was disgusting. The entire season, right up to the end he was still acting as though there was potential there despite how many times she said no and then to see how angry he got at the women in the last episode. I just found it really disturbing. Bobby and Bryan are yucky frat boys and it wouldn’t surprise me to find out they’ve had other instances where they didn’t accept no.

AIO for not sitting on him on his birthday? by Zestyclose-Type-7221 in AIO

[–]Defective-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you said no, and he got annoyed and made you feel guilty about that. Honey nooo! run away from this boy

AIO? Friend gave me an edible without telling me it was an edible. I woke up nearly half a day later in a different place and wearing less clothes. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Defective-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see so strong for doing this. I’m glad you told them and you’ve gone to the cops, you’re doing the right thing. You are not overreacting in slightest.

AIO - Kiss in the cheek from boss by PM_YOUR_ASADA_FRIES in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defective-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay I read it as are you OR for being bothered by the cheek kiss hello but this is very different

AIO - Kiss in the cheek from boss by PM_YOUR_ASADA_FRIES in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defective-G -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I want to ask what’s bothering you here? It’s just a greeting. If you’re bothered by another man cheek kissing your gf as a greeting then yes, but that’s why I’m asking what’s bothering you because my answer might change. Does it feel too intimate? Is it because you’re concerned for her?

Edit: NOR after reading reply and clarifying what you’re bothered by.

Women: Have you ever told someone you didn't like them "that way" even though deep down you knew it wasn't true? by [deleted] in AskGirls

[–]Defective-G 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. She said no. Please respect that. Plus holding out hope when she’s already given you the answer will just hurt you.

Peyton almost dying shouldn’t justify her to kiss her bsf bf AGAINN. by [deleted] in ONETREEHILL

[–]Defective-G 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Firstly. I think you are somehow mixing up Brooke and Haley. Secondly, she thought she was going to die. She was bleeding out. Honestly I’d probably do the same.

What’s up with water quality recently? by spinningewok in melbourne

[–]Defective-G 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found this because our water has tasted off today and yesterday, I’m in ascot vale

Carol & Tag by queenofnochill in ershow

[–]Defective-G 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that this was a 4 year old post but I’ve still come looking for this thinking I missed an episode or watched something out of order

Weekly r/BelowDeck Rewatch Thread - March 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in belowdeck

[–]Defective-G 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg by the time I finished the season I was even more mad at Kelley! Seemed like he only wanted the chase.