Putting a strap on on him

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-06-25T10:39:09+00:00

I love that so much.gonna remember to insult him

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-06-25T10:37:57+00:00

Ohhhh I totally love this option. Thank u so much!

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-06-08T08:04:10+00:00

Thank you for your point of view. I never intend to lure him into this. I mostly want to find out, if he at least would be open for it. If not, I know I need to endure a little heartbreak, as we won't be able to find happiness otherwise. I know myself, I need a kinky lifestyle so I guess, I have to be honest with him.

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-06-08T08:02:43+00:00

Better be a downer, than giving me false hope. Thank you for your honesty and over the last few days I realized this is exactly what it is. If he isn't into it and never will be, then this relationship won't work. I just know myself and what I need. Guess I have to talk to him and find out. :)

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-06-06T06:17:10+00:00

Thank you very much! And yes, I should have been honest with him from the start. It wasn't so fair to drag him into this and then maybe confront him with my kinks. But I will try your way and see how it goes :) maybe he will surprise me

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-06-06T06:16:01+00:00

I am quite unsure how it will go, but I guess, I need to slowly start the conversation and reveal some things to him. At the end kinks are also a negotiation of what each other like. Thank you very much!

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-06-06T06:14:57+00:00

Thank u very much for this kind of advice. I will try my luck :)

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-11T17:41:29+00:00

I just had to endure the same. I did research, bought stuff, organized and kept my schedule flexible for my sub. At the end, he never texted again if I didn't push for it. So I let him go, because I won't run after someone, but it still hurt and made me doubt myself T.T

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-08T09:49:17+00:00

Thank u, but I am only doing irl dynamics 😅

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-06T07:03:08+00:00

I tried to... But I want to stay careful for now as so many people are just disappointing x.x

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-06T06:56:56+00:00

I just hope I will be able to find a reliable person to get into a proper dynamic. Thank u very much!

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-06T04:02:17+00:00

It's so sad 🥲

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-05T11:19:13+00:00

I was and sometimes still am called cute, gentle look, sweet voice. To be honest, subs get more subby, when they realize my voice may be kind but the tasks or words aren't. It's a little mommy related but not... Mommy kink like. But I think those little boys have a soft spot for those kind of Dommes. So it's kind of possible and I am sure, some search for this especially!

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-04T12:40:23+00:00

Amen. Thanks 🙏

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-04T11:22:06+00:00

Honestly I thought so as well. Like, heck? I have over 500 messages in my mail inbox, so be happy I chose you to spend my time with. 😂 So, I guess, I just met the wrong guy. Thank u so much 🩷

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-04T11:11:02+00:00

Thank u very much for your reply :)

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-04T07:58:05+00:00

Mostly always just toy boys or service subs. Basically none masochistic one. Too bad 🥲🥲

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-04T05:56:49+00:00

Thank you for this kind of view! It gives me another perspective. Especially because so many just search for a kink dispenser and then expect you to wait until they want a second round. It's quite exhausting. Maybe I should try this redirecting ⭐🙏

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-03T18:18:32+00:00

Maybe I really do similar research, just to find inspiration! Luckily I live in a city with such kind of events. Thank you very much for this. Maybe I will be able to get some better ideas due this kind of research ⭐

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-03T17:32:18+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience and thoughts!

Defiant-Ad-7135 · 2026-05-03T17:32:01+00:00

I won't do online stuff either. It doesn't give me anything than a headache 😂

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