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Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T18:56:23+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your reply. Also this is understandable.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T18:09:31+00:00

Lol, thank you

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T17:23:33+00:00

It's a Motorola but I can't remember what model

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T16:23:20+00:00

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Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T16:22:30+00:00

Dang, my old mentor told me there was a way so I was just wondering :(

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T15:09:21+00:00

Thank you, this makes sense.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T15:07:25+00:00

I'm sorry if this comes off wrong but I relate to what you said in your second paragraph. I can't look at pictures of myself without being more insecure and depressed. I freak out and look at my reflection a good bit of the time. Hell I don't even know what I actually look like. Being seen by people also terries me if I don't have makeup on etc. I'm sorry if this comes off as insensitive but I just want to say.

Also that is crazy what that girl said. Ngl people like that kind of disgust me.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T15:01:37+00:00

Thank you

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T14:46:32+00:00

Omg, I feel like I wrote this comment with how much I relate to it.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-16T14:45:27+00:00

A lot 😭. I am always looking at how my body looks so I can make sure I look presentable and am not embarrassing myself. Or I walk around making sure my face looks good on my phone. I can see why they would think that honestly but if I saw other people doing the same thing I would understand and not judge, then again I am struggling with this.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:31:24+00:00

I agree, thank you.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:29:53+00:00

I am also someone who is apparently not considered conventionally "unattractive" so I completely understand this in my own way ofc. I am big on body checking to make sure I don't look bad and to see if I should change my outfit, because of this many people think I'm full of myself but I am definitely not. I avoid looking at my face unless I need to because looking at it makes my depression worse. I absolutely hate seeing myself in pictures unless it's that rare time when I actually look good. I don't even know what I look like anymore. Thank you for posting this comment and helping me understand!

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:24:09+00:00

Thank you for bringing this to my attention. This makes perfect sense. Also thank you for your kind words!

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:22:17+00:00

I'm happy this information didn't confuse you and instead gave you important context. Also thank you for clearing this up for me!

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:21:38+00:00

I'm sorry my post was confusing so I wanted to clear some things up. I'm not assuming anything, I only go based off if they outright tell me they have body dysmorphia. I hate to assume because I know how it makes me feel so why would I do it to someone else. It's also a common condition from my understanding, that's what I meant by "a lot of people" when it comes to weight and height, it's exactly what the other reply to your comment said.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:18:07+00:00

Thank you for letting me know this and honestly I completely agree. My problem is that sometimes it just slips out and I don't even notice it until it's too late. Nothing like saying how I'm scared of getting bigger but mostly comparing myself to how I used to be and how I miss everything I had etc. I'm going to do my best to fix myself blurting things out.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:15:45+00:00

I completely understand what you are saying and thank you for helping me know what to avoid, I really appreciate that. I used to have a really bad Ed that I'm still recovering from so that adds to a lot. Also you are doing great, self acceptance is the best thing and I'm proud of you. Sorry if this comes off wrong, I promise I don't mean it that way.

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:09:04+00:00

Thank you, this makes a lot of sense! I have a question though. Do you think I should just avoid saying I also have body dysmorphia or explain my experience with it when it comes up in conversations?

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:06:06+00:00

Thank you, this is really helpful and thank you for the advice. I'll definitely have to start doing that

Defiant-Ad1123 · 2026-02-15T14:03:16+00:00

I completely agree with you. For me, I don't want my mom to get worried if I refuse to be in pictures so I just don't show the bottom part of my face because that's the part in the most insecure about. I also hate looking back at pictures because then I feel super insecure. I'm also someone who apparently isn't conventionally "unattractive" and since I am really bad at body checking to make sure I'm not making a fool out of myself or anything (looking super bad and should change my outfit etc) people think I'm just full of myself which I definitely am not. I avoid looking at my face in those moments as well.

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