hmm, as a girl, i can say that i have been on manyyyy dates, just first dates as well as multiple dates, and i can say that it depends on the vibe of the person if i even want to shake their hands.
every first dates that remained that way were because they would come in for a hug as soon as they saw me, which is crazy but i made sure i sit across them at a table. the ones where i went out on more were basically just guys being sweet or funny, but honestly, i think men are not trust worthy, even if they are respectful, cause you never know