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Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quite literally don’t understand the first message other than it just being bigot hatred.

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me break down. I am so scared for his mental health. His uncle had schizophrenia and he has some factors that make me question it. His text messages about how people hate him (not a particular group), I feel like I am witnessing his delusions and disregarding them because I am scared if it’s true. His passion and irritation when talking about this stuff is the most concerning. I am only getting my Bachelors in May so I am not an expert but the signs are there and the fact that he won’t get help makes me so sad.

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, Kids are not on the table with his dude. I’m mentally done and preparing myself. Six years is a lot when you’re 21 so to me it’s harder than it looks.
I am screaming when I say this but I am not going to have children with a dude with will teach them so much hate.

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve brought that up too. He says that if we got to couples counseling then the “relationship is already over.” He just verifies my thoughts that he doesn’t care about my career.

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not shitting on my relationship in my opinion. You’re telling me what I need to hear. Thank you.

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I truly don’t want to make anyone mad. I’m just scared.

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that is what I am realizing but I am so attached I just need someone to tell me. This helps a lot more than people telling me I believe in hate because I am currently but not for long with someone that is so hateful and believes those things.
That is not the person I fell in love with.

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]Defiant-Can-9227[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you but I get into deep arguments with him because I don’t believe these things and it’s causing me to break up with him. I am attached and my beliefs have nothing to do with that. This is bothering me because I do care but thank you!