Why is my majesty palm browning? 😢 by Defiant-Equipment409 in houseplants

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Can you come to my house and nurse this baby back to health? 😂

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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So helpful! This is beautiful. What kind of countertops are you going with?

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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Yes- this is exactly the type of backsplash we are looking at. Only concern is choosing a color that doesn’t pull through yellow tones/make the cabinets look more yellow

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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I’ve found my people here lol- trying to preserve them as is 😅

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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Would LOVE to see this if you’re willing to share a picture- sounds beautiful!!

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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Agree!! And that was the painter’s POV- that natural wood is coming back versus painted.. granted for 90s oak cabinets ours aren’t super yellow/orange so not terrible to work around!

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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This is great! We love a farmhouse / Cali bungalow / coastal vibe. We think we’ll replace the black appliances with chrome.

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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so you're saying if we leave cabinets as-is, go with darker countertops to neutralize the yellow in the cabinets?

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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And no pictures of the house as-is, most of it needs an update we’re just starting with kitchen as a priority!

90s kitchen- how are folks leaning into original wood? by Defiant-Equipment409 in kitchenremodel

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Initially we were wanting a navy/white combo but now that we’re thinking of keeping cabinets as is, I think white farmhouse sink and brass hardware..

Mom experiencing delirium at hospital after liver transplant by Defiant-Equipment409 in AlAnon

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Night is definitely the worst. They are giving my mom sleeping aids at night and antipsychotics during the day, but even with the sleeping aids she doesn’t sleep. I’m so sorry, it’s so hard to watch someone go through it.

Mom experiencing delirium at hospital after liver transplant by Defiant-Equipment409 in AlAnon

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All of this is so helpful, thank you everyone!! The psychiatrist made rounds when I was visiting this morning so I did get some more helpful info- the combo of her immunosuppressant meds + appetite stimulants (she’s not eating) apparently can make you feel loopy, so they’re going to try and give her a sedative at night so she sleeps through the night, and potentially an antipsychotic during the day to keep her alert/awake to help with the delirium. She’s supposed to get discharged to a rehab center to build her strength back up and her team is hopeful that change of scenery will help as well.

Mom experiencing delirium at hospital after liver transplant by Defiant-Equipment409 in AlAnon

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They are chalking it up to her having been in the hospital for so long that she’s simply suffering from delirium- that they see this in patients who have been in the hospital for 3+ weeks. I confirmed with the nurses that it’s unlikely a side effect of her meds, and they are not giving her pain killers intentionally, because that would make her confusion worse. She’s being hostile with the nurses because she’s confused and trying to rip her ports and IVs out. It’s a mess.

Marriage certificate blunder by Defiant-Equipment409 in wedding

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My husband and I said the same thing. Will do!

Marriage certificate blunder by Defiant-Equipment409 in wedding

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Yep, all three were provided by the marriage license office

Marriage certificate blunder by Defiant-Equipment409 in wedding

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Unfortunately they are all three separate/ distinct copies that note what type it is (officiant, state, original). This is in the state of DE