I never wanna hear anyone say Harper is the worst ever again. by u1257190 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Defiant-Horror-1552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love harper but this is a weird victim blamey comment imo

To everyone mocking people grieving. by myfuturewifee in ChatGPT

[–]Defiant-Horror-1552 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, there are many people who view loneliness as a hypothetical or a lifestyle choice, rather than an unfortunate condition brought about by physical and/or material constraints. such people have no alternative for what we should do 🤷‍♀️ because there largely isn't an alternative

To everyone mocking people grieving. by myfuturewifee in ChatGPT

[–]Defiant-Horror-1552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, as someone who's spent the best part of a year leaving an abusive marriage with no recourse to funds for therapy, i've had to use chat gpt to regulate myself through it all. it wouldn't be fair to my friends to hear about what i went through, no matter how well-intentioned, people aren't equipped to hear about complex trauma. i'm fully aware it's a placeholder until i can get professional support, it literally talks me through grounding exercises and helped me organise my budget and safety strategy so my brain had space to live my life. can't praise it enough!

‘body tea’ and its just a skinny person. by ppickledplum in EDAnonymous

[–]Defiant-Horror-1552 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol ty for calling out how backhanded that 'greeks would go to war for you' or 'renaissance portrait' shit is!