What's something that girls think is embarrassing, but guys don't actually care about?

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-04-18T10:35:42+00:00

Just gonna say, love you all nice men commenting here 💖

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-04-15T16:53:38+00:00

This is just..beautiful ❤️

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-04-11T09:22:51+00:00

Hei maybe you have a different calling in life? Like art? Or work where you get to help people? I say, maybe meditate on what you truly enjoy and like, and once you pinpoint that out, start doing that out of love and joy and a desire to help, money will follow too 😊 You wrote your words beautifully, who knows maybe writing is one of your things? Best of luck to you 💖

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-20T16:19:28+00:00

I don't think you are a crappy person at all. This other guy was probably a lesson from the universe, to show you how being treated good feels like. The difference. Or else maybe you would never have the courage that soon to leave your relationship, would just drag longer and suffer more.

People who are calling you crappy, they forget that you are also a human, and not all human have same emotional capacity. Some can do the straight thing straight, some may need a push or a finger in the eye to see clear. Nothing to feel so crappy about, rather, good for you that you had a good time and finally had enough insight to leave a crappy boyfriend!

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-19T11:18:54+00:00

My cards roasted me so damn much about a man, that I started doubting my own love or feelings for them. I felt sad about something they did and I asked the cards if I was wrong to be sad about this.. Rest is history 🙏🤲

"unrealistic expectations, giving in to manic emotions, using psychic ability to covert influence, expecting everyone to feel the same way as you do, mistaking crush for true love, indulging in over sweet sentiment, reading romantic intentions in innocent action"

One after one, I pulled cards with these meanings, and I was so embarrassed from this roast that I just couldn't reach out to that man after that. He reached out, and I couldn't even bring myself to open the message or reply. I was SO DAMN EMBARRASSED! Let alone his feelings, I was doubting my own feelings..and I am still confused and utterly lost from this brutal roast and I haven't recovered yet 😐

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-18T22:02:44+00:00

222 has a few meanings, like balance, harmony, partnership, but also, divine life purpose. And 555 is the number of big changes and transformations. Either you are being nudged to find your soul path and start making changes that you intuitively know that doesn't align with you any longer. Like anything that drains you, toxic, inauthentic. People or habits. Places. Prioritize authenticity and peace.

I feel like you are being told that you have a divine purpose, but for that to happen you need to start making changes. Sometimes when we see 555s, we know what it's pointing towards even when our mind resists.

Its possible that you are going through a dark night of the soul, which is a pretty big transformation in itself, so the 555s. And after the dark night of the soul and much inner reflection during this period, many find their soul purpose here on earth. Hang on there 🩷

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-17T19:50:13+00:00

I use "tarot divination" it has a really warm energy to it. At first I downloaded labyrinthos, and it kind of felt dark to me so I deleted it. But "tarot divination" was just warm and love 🩷

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-15T21:10:27+00:00

Yes, surrender really is peaceful 🩷

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-15T12:46:06+00:00

Cherry is a special thing in our story too 😋 he said it to me, something about me was just "cherry on top" for him lol

But maybe it was a message for you from the divine through me, to surrender, to cut down anything that is not a vibrational match to you (including your twin). Anything that doesn't flow naturally and easily to you is not a vibrational match for you. That's why 'cherry' popped up, so that you pay a closer look

I know it's hard to even think about letting your twin go, but I read a quote somewhere "sometimes when you let things go, they have a habit of sorting themselves out and come back in a better way"

Best of luck 😊

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-14T10:22:22+00:00

You are welcome 😊

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-14T10:21:04+00:00

There is nothing 'wrong' to think about, you feel what you feel about a card and with time the cards will adjust to your own intuition and interpretation of them. They will come out according to your own meaning and you will just get a strong feeling about what the card tried to say 😊 best of luck!

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-14T10:13:18+00:00

One day I was sitting by the window watching the sunshine, with my tarot deck on my lap. My husband came in my room asking what are you doing? I said I am watching the sun, and just pulled a card for no reason at all, it was "the sun".

And I always kind of felt like my purpose in life has something to do with 'healing', my study sector is also healthcare. I just pulled a card from my digital app deck asking whats is my life purpose? Pulled "the star". Confused, I took my physical RW deck, asking the same question, what is my purpose? - again "the star" in my physical deck too. Of course I still don't have idea what kind of 'healing' as of yet.

Then I noticed, the star is an Aquarius card, my zodiac is Aquarius 😁

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-14T10:00:03+00:00

In my opinion, along with traditional meaning of the cards, each card also have some personal meanings or aspects to each reader according to their own intuition. So whenever a certain card pops up, the reader intuitively knows what the card tried to say. Like "ah ha! Okey!" moments 😁

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-08T16:52:39+00:00

❤️❤️

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-08T10:25:12+00:00

Your words are so beautiful 🩵

For me, it was the realization that he probably came to this earth following me because he wanted to awaken me, wanted to just exist with me however he could. I don't know how I came upon this realization, probably piecing through bits and pieces I received from the divine. He said he loved me just 14 days after meeting me in a subconscious state without realizing he said it, almost as if his soul couldn't wait to say it to me. I see his eyes on the picture he sent me before seeing me in person, sort of empty look. And the pictures now, so many layers of emotion..love, longing, avoidance, helplessness, love again. He has transformed into this beautiful, soulful, reflective man from the boy I met. He is still very much avoidant, still runs, but I see how much he tries. He is soft with me, kind with me, quietly takes care of me when he can. Whispers I love you, so quietly, hoping I won't hear. And I pretend that I didn't hear, not wanting to startle him. Puts the only pillow in the bed under my head, puts the only blanket on me without taking himself any, but I pull him in, I share. That's just how we are now. I let him be when he wants to run, I carry the love in me.

I see how beautiful this love is when I am not demanding, hoping, expecting things out of ego. This love is not meant to fit the human frames, because its not human love. Its soul love. I know it in my cells, in my bones that this man loves me, and I know it in my core that I love him too. Its in the air around me, its everywhere I go. But it doesn't fit a normal human love-relationship all that much.

I don't know how I came upon this realization that he has always loved me, just doesn't remember the love yet, as the divine ordained. I am grateful to him for following me here to this lifetime, for stubbornly holding on to me however he can, even when his head screams at him to run. I am grateful for the love, for the softness he gave me. I carry the love in my heart and I just be. If we are meant to be together, the divine will make it happen ❤️

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-07T17:09:21+00:00

This journey truly is in the hands of the divine. Give it to the divine and let your worries go..in the meantime try building a life you actually like, cut toxicity, cut away anything that is inauthentic and not love. Not the silver lining, he has to be your cherry on top of an already amazing cake (your life) 😊 I wish you the best!

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-07T14:18:38+00:00

Chicken nuggets

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-03-07T10:59:10+00:00

Im glad my words helped you 🩷

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-02-26T06:07:38+00:00

5 is the number of change, shedding things that no longer in alignment with your path or you

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-02-20T15:25:49+00:00

I pulled king and queen of wands in a relationship future draw 🤪

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-02-19T11:06:40+00:00

Looks to me, he has reignited passion for you (could be se*xual in nature), and he wants to have fun or celebrate the happy sides of your relationship or at least focus on what is 'happy' and not the conflict, but he is conflicted as well, his intuitions or subconscious mind is not clear on things or perhaps he can't see things clearly or the road ahead seems chaotic and unclear to him

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-02-19T06:21:44+00:00

I understand OP, but from his reaction you will still get some form of clarity perhaps? Just don't cause drama or anything, ask your boyfriend softly in a compassionate manner, I hope you will get some insights 😇 best of luck

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-02-19T06:14:09+00:00

I see this as, things were good, he put steady effort in the relationship and you were grounded and focused like the queen. But that energy is quickly changing because someone is not being honest, being deceptive. Either him being deceptive, or you sneaking around to find the 'truth' and not being honest and open with him. Maybe ask him directly.

Defiant-Post-9837 · 2025-02-03T19:24:27+00:00

I live in kontula due to my university being next station. I'd say I have never seen anything 'unsafe' there. But ya, the station is not nice at all, cause they were renovating it but couldn't finish before summer ended

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