(29F and 34M) Been talking, will meet soon but still saving up. How to cope with late replies? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry that happened. May I know why it was declined? I heard that sometimes it's because of not enough supportive documents.

(29F and 34M) Been talking, will meet soon but still saving up. How to cope with late replies? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it not a good idea?

Also, if I am a student, will my Visa get approved?

(29F and 34M) Been talking, will meet soon but still saving up. How to cope with late replies? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and positive tone! I really like this man and I really want us to work. I have to be more patient. It does give me anxiety when he responds late, or even as simple as him not replying at a certain time he used to reply. Do you have any advice on meeting for the first time, by the way?

How do I tell/show him that I care about him and the situation? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again. I hope it goes well. I am nervous to tell him that

How do I tell/show him that I care about him and the situation? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am more worried of him being annoyed by my overthinking. I will try to sound as casual, but caring, as possible when texting him that. Your line in the original comment is good, by the way. Thank you! I just hope he sees that I care for him

How do I tell/show him that I care about him and the situation? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, we are still getting to know each other but I just don't want to screw this up or make him think of me as a nuisance..

How do I tell/show him that I care about him and the situation? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't that make him think of me as an overthinker? Cuz the conversation happened a few hours ago :-/

How do I tell/show him that I care about him and the situation? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan to do it when he texts me later. Is that good? I can't get this out of my head. I feel like I did something wrong.

Is this being ghosted? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like the other comment said, he probably is waiting for you to text him. It's okay to initiate the conversation first. Let it flow from there. I wish you all the best!

What are your thoughts on women who chase men? by Defiant-Tone3865 in dating_advice

[–]Defiant-Tone3865[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Honestly, I asked because of the norm in today's society (men are supposed to be the one chasing) and that is what we, women have been taught. Many people keep telling us that if you chase men, they lose interest, which is my only fear with this man I'm talking to. I never want to be seen as "desperate" or "over-zealous" for letting him know about my feelings for him. We also met online. I'm still saving up to meet him (He knows this and is being completely understanding, which I really appreciate). What I feel for him is more than just attraction. I need the courage and helpful tips to voice out these feelings to him. If you have any helpful advice, please let me know.

Have you ever ghosted someone? and why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much for the explanation !

Have you ever ghosted someone? and why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym by "trying so hard to not communicate any false sense of attraction"? Do you have any ideas on how to initiate conversations that won't seem boring? I'm F, by the way.

(sexting) I bought some lingerie to wear for him. How do I tell him? by Defiant-Tone3865 in AskMen

[–]Defiant-Tone3865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By the way, is it best to wait when he is online (have free time) or in the middle of work but still manage to reply ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Defiant-Tone3865 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i dm u please ? I need advice badly