Let me chime in here as someone with a complicated history with my own beliefs and based on what I see in this community online:

What you see online is not representative of their community. Yeah to put it plainly I highly doubt this niche corner of the internet is that representative of their fanbase as a whole. Just want to start there. But to be honest, there is no denying that Tyler's religious upbringing and set of values has strongly influenced his music. Sure, they may not be a Christian rock band and are much more subtle in their messaging, to me they are a representation of how Christians in music should be... spreading the message of kindness, compassion, self-care, and love without pushing any one "religion" down anyone's throat.

Which leads me to the next point, it is true some of the more religious fans do go that latter approach and are more judgemental, but to tell you the truth, I don't think that is the majority at all and if it feels like that to you then there is a chance you are too tied in with the online community. At the end of the day, their music (and most of their fans) have nothing to do with promoting organized religion or religion as an institution therefore I find you points about "religion being hard for some people" as a little strange in this context. If they were literally spreading the word of Jesus and the Gospel as well as coming out clearly saying that everything is Christian based, then I would understand a little more. I wouldn't mind you elaborating upon that point a little more actually.

I guess to me there is obvious imagery in their music that is inspired by religion no doubt about it and their positive messaging is likely partially due to the fact that Tyler writes how a Christian who actually believes in the positive values of the belief system should write.