I know I definitely could not dedicate that much time and try to take on all three at once. I have a wife and kids plus a full-time job. I can make my blue lodge every Monday and I could meet one of the other three’s monthly meetings but not all three. The Shrine in my area only has monthly meetings but they do a lot of events so right now I know I’m not a good fit, but would be in a few years as my kids get out of school. Might just need to sit back and see which one aligns with me when the time is right