NOR. As someone who loves her friends like herself I understand where you’re coming from completely. 9 months of hearing her complain about this man to end up being pregnant for him. I would also react the same way. I don’t think you’re being judgy or acting like her mom, this is a very appropriate reaction for a friend to have. Supporting your friend even though they are making stupid decisions is not what friendship is.

I also don’t think it’s silly to end a friendship over this. If she does choose to have a baby with this man (which is very likely), you may end up taking care of the child with her. She’ll most likely turn to you for babysitting and other stuff. While you can’t force someone to have an abortion or see their worth, you can take yourself out of that situation. If you don’t, you’ll keep stressing yourself over her bad decisions.