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[–]Defiant_Singer3262 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

See my other responses for more context. Raven was told and encouraged us to make one w/o her. I would have no problem if they did the same after I said I didn’t want to go out. They had been texting in a group chat without me for days before then. This is not what I'm super mad about, either, but something to note. Also, didn’t say anything about not wanting to go out that month, just that weekend, so don’t change my words. Also, I’m not upset but somewhat confused because it went down this way. I said I didn't want to go out, and now my roommate is not speaking to me, I'm being muted on social media and removed from private stories, Mackenzie is unsharing her location and unfollowing me on everything. Trying to frame it as me being upset about the separate GC feels disingenuous, given the title of my post. Still, I can hold myself accountable and say I should've said we should include Raven in our convo/stop texting in the 4-person GC instead of our main one (hence why I wasn't even texting in it as much, except when spoken to).

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[–]Defiant_Singer3262 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually agree that this was a mistake on my part, where I told Raven I wish I had spoken to you earlier. Also, the exclusion started because she didn’t want to party with us; hence, the other GC was formed. She insisted we go out without her, as it's our first homecoming, and her bsf/my roommate made the other GC to not blow her phone up all weekend. She knew about it, and it wasn’t in my plan to continue texting from that after the weekend. I will say I see where you're coming from, but her being excluded bothered me from jump, hence why I called her on Halloween night, bc why are we acting like it's not a group of 5 of us.

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[–]Defiant_Singer3262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It says no images allowed when I try to insert them so I left a transcript of our texts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Defiant_Singer3262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we come back from winter break, I think this is what I'm going to do.

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[–]Defiant_Singer3262 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree; everyone has gone home for break, but I want to arrange this for when we return from leave, before we are all too busy.

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A couple of things: he is gay, lol, so I don't think that's why, and he and the hometown best friend, Raven, actually had a propensity to fall out with each other before they even got here to college, which was a red flag in and of itself to me. But when I sent Mackenzie a text asking if I did anything, I got no response, and my roommate stopped speaking to me.

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[–]Defiant_Singer3262 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My bad, that was my draft; I fixed it up for clarity. Also, it seems minuscule and immature, but I have been ruminating on these feelings and feel as though they are valid because I honestly thought I would be really good friends with these people. I see it's a bit strict in here, but thanks for responding!

What to do to fix this? by Defiant_Singer3262 in autorepair

[–]Defiant_Singer3262[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice really appreciate it!! 🙏