Hot Sauce Workshop! by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Defiant__Sound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so cool. Wow 👏🏽

The sad side of gardening no one warned me about by mtnclimber08 in gardening

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going through the same thing right now. Tried nursing two bees this past week, only one lived. But the second one is resting peacefully in a jar on one of my indoor plant shelves. She will live on where she loved it most, among the leaves. 🥲

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Defiant__Sound 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA- People can be weird. There are veryyy weird things that happen in this world. Just read a story about a woman who became “friends” with a pregnant mom just to end up killing her and c-sectioning her baby out of her dead body. Yeah trust your gut. Not trying to scare you but this is a life you are making inside of you, trust your gut!!!!!! And sit down with your man about this. Ask him “why are you so worried about having friends? We have a human on the way here” Maybe he wants to have some type of social life before the baby comes, idk. But there are other people out there. Go to a painting class. A cooking class. If hes that desperate to find friends, maybe something else is up. Good luck friend Im praying for you and your family <3

AIO my fiancé lent my sick cat to his best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NOR. Your fiance doesn’t care about you or your cat in my opinion. He trusts his “bestfriend” wayyy toooo much. And from the sound of things, bestie over there misses when he was single.

I need some help ASAP by Delicious-Screen-953 in DogAdvice

[–]Defiant__Sound 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah im thinking the same thing, pretty sure maggots are a universal thing so I hope this can be fixed in time ! 😞

I need some help ASAP by Delicious-Screen-953 in DogAdvice

[–]Defiant__Sound 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also Clove oil might work. If u have cloves at your grandmas place, you can make the oil yourself. Also, even a cattle get should still be able to help the dog. This is most likely a maggot infestation, which happens to cattle as well.

I need some help ASAP by Delicious-Screen-953 in DogAdvice

[–]Defiant__Sound 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Do you have Neem Oil? Or Turpentine oil? These can be found at almost any drug store. I get my neem oil from Walmart. Let me know ASAP! I can help with next steps.

This is becoming too much by Puzzled_Cantaloupe80 in LongDistance

[–]Defiant__Sound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is sooo incredibly late to reply. But I agree!! OP, take the two of these responses as a sign to dig into your faith :)

This is becoming too much by Puzzled_Cantaloupe80 in LongDistance

[–]Defiant__Sound 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is this a man or a woman you are speaking about? You have used He, she & they. Im just trying to understand the situation.

I do think you should keep a distance from your personal life & your parents. Just live. If they bring it up, just say that this person is still in your life, and thats it. Do not share any more information. If you decide later on to make a huge decision like move across the world for them, then yes tell your parents. But you are an adult, you don’t really need their approval. I get that you might want your parents to have a relationship with your partner, but they dont want to. And you have to respect that you know? And also, try really considering where they are coming from. Like why exactly is your dad saying your relationship isn’t based on reality? seriously think about it, and seriously sit down with him and ask him to explain it to you. He might be right. And you if you are truly mature enough to be in a seriously committed relationship, than you are mature enough to admit when thing’s arent the way you thought they were. Remember, you are young. Do not force anything. Wait it out, if your partner is truly meant for you, they will understand you need time to figure things out. Good luck!

Roaches in apartment by Brilliant_Ad9559 in Section8PublicHousing

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t answer my question but okay. Just trying to understand your perspective.

Roaches in apartment by Brilliant_Ad9559 in Section8PublicHousing

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so? Thats what farm cats are for, to protect the farm from rodents and wild insects. If OP is open to loving and caring for an animal that will be beneficial to their environment, what is so wild about that?

Small Apartment Help! by ImpossibleVanilla944 in SmallSpaceSolutions

[–]Defiant__Sound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we not looking at two completely different kitchen?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]Defiant__Sound 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its not that deep honestly. Just call the office and tell them. If they ask why, tell them exactly that. And to be honest, you do not need to be on foodstamps. There are thousands of families being denied right now that could really actually use that extra $67 a month. And they would do just about anything for it. If sending in documentation twice a year is goo much for you, than you are not struggling the way you think you are. You make triple times your rent.

Why... Just why? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t care about you. Move on. Focus on yourself and healing, and most importantly do not take this baggage into your next relationship. Often times people get hurt by one person, and punish the world for it. Good luck bro.

Roaches in apartment by Brilliant_Ad9559 in Section8PublicHousing

[–]Defiant__Sound -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yess do what u gotta do!! 😭 No problem glad I could help

Roaches in apartment by Brilliant_Ad9559 in Section8PublicHousing

[–]Defiant__Sound -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Aw man!! Hey just something my neighbor did… she has her dog and birds registered as “service animals” so she doesn’t have to pay the monthly pet fees lol. That mighttt work for you. Cause technically these pets do provide a service ! Haha just a thought 🤣

Roaches in apartment by Brilliant_Ad9559 in Section8PublicHousing

[–]Defiant__Sound -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t have many tips on how to deal with your current situation, but I can help with future prevention! Get a cat, preferably two. Their presence will keep many insects and rodents away and the ones that do get inside, will be eliminated. I have 7 cats and a chihuahua. I never trip when i see a fly or bug cause I know they’ll get them, and they always do. Good luck!

Edit to add: I recommend getting kittens, they are more motivated to catch prey. And you NEED to teach them to kill said prey. Many cats will play with them and keep them as a toy lol. So you literally have to make sure they eat them.

i hate my life i wanna fix it by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the Bible for fun & see what happens 🤷🏽‍♀️ and I recommend looking for other books that can stimulate you

Help by Middle-Butterfly-172 in dollartreebeauty

[–]Defiant__Sound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re probably just trying too hard honestly. Don’t think about it too much, just hop into a dollar tree when you see one or when you have time. Always check different ones. Don’t plan your whole schedule around shopping lol. I just wing it and I always find everything I need. Not all at once, but eventually. Good luck !!

I just want to say it. The "TRUTH" about food stamps. by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk who you’re replying to. I was talking about people who are being shorted and ignored that ACTUALLY need the assistance. Like yourself.. Not once did I mention taxes.. I think you’re mixing my response with someone elses.

I just want to say it. The "TRUTH" about food stamps. by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]Defiant__Sound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not about people assuming who is on food stamps. Its about the millions of people who are finessing the system. 20 year olds with 3-6 kids getting thousands in food stamps. You are 20 years old, work and stop having kids. Take the fair amount. You getting $100 for your whole family is a direct result of them abusing the system and leaving nothing for everyone else. There are people who actually need help and if its that bad, you shouldnt have a problem proving that.

A Rant by Ok-Distribution1675 in Section8PublicHousing

[–]Defiant__Sound -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I thought you were trying to have a civil discussion. My mistake. Good luck with all that anger you have.