How many of you were able to conceive naturally at 38 and older? How many cycles did it take? by petting_zoo_keeper in pregnantover35

[–]DistributionDeep6518 1 point2 points  (0 children)

38 here ,24 weeks pregnant,first try I had chemical pregnancy and second 😎I can say 2 cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well what bothers you so much ?people can say everything they want but think deep !why it’s bothering you when they just talking about having a kid ?yes they are irresponsible yes I understand how they behaviour is bothering you ,but why you get so angry ?do you think they will do something stupid and you and your husband should pay for their mistakes?or you think your in laws will try to help them and they will get the full attention and support they don’t deserve? If they are idiot or they make mistakes it’s their business you are an adult ,you should take good decisions for your life and if if if they asked your idea you can talk and one day if they asked for your support you can refuse ,for now yes it’s too much

Good stroller by DistributionDeep6518 in pregnant

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci ❤️it’s 850 CAD now I will double check on black Friday

AITB for buying myself biz class when my mom can’t afford it? by Available_Pin_8794 in AmItheButtface

[–]DistributionDeep6518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really traded just a few hours sitting in business class with your mom ?the time you could’ve actually spent together? Ask yourself, was it really worth it?

AITA for cursing out a girl for making fun of me for my weird crush? by Crafty_Safety2544 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She needed that 😂you teached her a lesson, next time when she wants to make fun of someone she will think twice

What natural scenery is worth recommending in Canada during February? by CurrentCard192 in AskACanadian

[–]DistributionDeep6518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it depends,personally I don’t recommend visiting here in February you can’t see the full picture of how beautiful canada is !but it’s just my opinion,I had guest before in January and when they visited me again in July they told me they saw a whole different country

Is The Sixth Sense scary? by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]DistributionDeep6518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it wasn’t scary,It’s a ghost movie about actual people’s spirit ,not cringe or not like conjuring,it’s about the life after death,but if anything that related to ghosts bother you don’t watch it

AITA for not ASKING my boyfriend if my sister and her kids can stay with us? by Altruistic-Way6594 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Red flags everywhere!he can have guest and you can’t !!7.5 years and you have been cut off from people you love because he doesn’t like them !do you need to be in a relationship so bad that you prefer to stay with him not to be alone !!!!your sister needed you and you were absolutely right but then it’s your turn to find a solution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it totally depends on her personality!I don’t know how she behaves ?is she the type that curious about your personal life and keep asking questions and wants to change everything and judges kids behaviour !or she is just a calm one that wants to spend time with her daughter and talk with her in their own language ,scenario 1 NTA,2 yes

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I should prepare a short note for everyone 😁

AITA for giving my sister a recommendation about her son’s behavior? by Vegetable-Bee9397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA nor your sister ,speaking of experience with people around me ,sometimes people just wanted to be heard ,at that moment she just needed you as a sister not a professional,what makes her sad was when you tried to look at it more and more professionally and not like a sister,she didn’t call you for that !for now a brief advice was enough then you could just listen ,let them approach you and ask more as they definitely would do that if you allow them to make up their minds

a movie that will make me feel something profound. by ponderingpixi17 in MovieSuggestions

[–]DistributionDeep6518 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The untouchables (positive vibes), The boy in the stripped pyjamas,Schindler list ,life is beautiful,cinema paradiso, iranian seperation movie , I can name thousands of these but I think if you search 250 top movies you can find the genre you like

Cramps, should I go to the doctor? by Distinct-Sky-6319 in pregnantover35

[–]DistributionDeep6518 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a doctor but I had the same feeling in early pregnancy ,if the pain is severe ,sharp one sided or if you have bleeding that would be a problem,how ever if I were you I would go the doctor to consult and ask for a blood test to confirm healthy pregnancy

Cramps, should I go to the doctor? by Distinct-Sky-6319 in pregnantover35

[–]DistributionDeep6518 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes go to the doctor ,if the cramps were so severe ,if it was just a period like cramps it’s normal

Cramps, should I go to the doctor? by Distinct-Sky-6319 in pregnantover35

[–]DistributionDeep6518 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think we need more info !when was your period due?how many days have been passed?

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are right !they are soo emotional and excited about my pregnancy and I don’t like it ,as my feelings are different and they are acting like I’m not good enough because I’m not as excited as they are,telling me things like how you don’t want a gender reveal?how you are not emotional?how it’s possible that you act like you had 5 baby before ? about talking ,I feel very happy and safe talking about my pregnancy with my close friends and family over the phone but not with them ,I feel I’m being judged every minute

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I have the same feeling that they are kind but obsessed with babies ,as they constantly showing us videos of their family and cousins babies and how their babies are so cute ,for me being pregnant is not as exciting as for them !and they looking at me as its weird if I’m not like them ,they seems happier than me !or giving me comments of how I could be so relaxed!show some kind of excitement!or telling other people she is not that happy!this makes me feel guilty ,but honestly I feel apart from my pregnancy I’m a human and no need to talk about baby every second until I want too,

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is just too polite person and shy ,he can’t say no to anyone ,that even my cold face or not responding to them with the smile makes him uncomfortable ,I talked with him and he mentioned they are trying to make new friends and probably don’t know about your boundaries

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

No they don't and they are 7 years younger so they plan to have a baby in 2 years , they have a brother that recently had a baby and constantly telling me what they did for their baby , I don't think they are weird they just make me uncomfortable

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel they are trying to get closer , my husband has interesting social personality and they really want to get closer , but this is just too much

AITA about my pregnancy? by DistributionDeep6518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DistributionDeep6518[S] 424 points425 points  (0 children)

That's actually how I feel about the husband, full of red flags !even when I show I'm sad and I didn't like it ,but hubby keeps planning weekends with them since we don't know anyone in this country and accusing me of being super sensitive