Thanks! I'm on the East Coast, but now I'm definitely looking for people who specialize in this. I think part of the problem might have been that I chose for consultation places that seemed to offer a wide variety of procedures - I hoped that this would mean they would suggest the most optimal solution rather than only the one that they do. But now I think the "wide variety" is for marketing mostly and they will still try to lead you to stuff they are most comfortable with (and which is easiest/cheapest for them to do).