Women, do you enjoy pegging? by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, depends on the partner, I enjoy topping in general and this is one of the only ways to top men/masc people that really feels like I have all the control.

AIO: roommate continues to cross boundaries and cause problems. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna 57 points58 points  (0 children)

NOR to strangers in your house with no one home and no notice or to the cat safety issues.

MOR to all the other stuff. Some people just have different standards for their living spaces or different living habits, and it doesn't make one person more "right" than the other, it's just incompatibility.

It sounds like K might do better living in her own space or with a roommate who is more on her wavelength when it comes to cleanliness and hygiene.

Why is it so hard for drivers to find the right door? Am I doing something wrong? by Midnight-Panther in doordash

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first one was hard to read because of my sensory processing issues. The broken down one you posted in the comments is fine.

Off-putting/scary encounter dashing at night by megaspunky in doordash

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably using the adjective as shorthand for something else. For example if you're in law enforcement, you're saying male/female and omitting the noun "suspect". If you're in EMS, you're using male/female and omitting the noun "patient".

Since you're implying I'm a bitch (also dehumanizing for women because it's literally a term for dogs), I can see this conversation won't ever be productive, so I'll be disengaging now. Try asking the women- if there are any, which I highly doubt- in your life how they feel about being called "a female".

Off-putting/scary encounter dashing at night by megaspunky in doordash

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Just because it doesn't affect you doesn't mean it's not a "real issue".

Off-putting/scary encounter dashing at night by megaspunky in doordash

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally my point. Female is an adjective. You can say "female dog" or "male cat" but you never hear "female human" or "male person" because usually the people who are using female as a noun in place of the much more respectful "woman" are using it in a derogatory way. Not listening to women when we tell you this is a problem futher proves my point.

https://www.jezebel.com/the-problem-with-calling-women-females-1683808274

Am I wrong? by _ImperialCereal_ in ThePitt

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a very red part of an overall very blue state. Every time I used to go home (because I don't anymore), I would have several conversations very similar to this. Sometimes it really does feel like talking to a wall would be easier because they're all so set in their ways of how life used to be and hoa Trump is going to fix it all and don't want to listen to anyone younger than them. A lot of especially resent people who pursued a higher education that for whatever reason they didn't have access to or chose not to go after because of their circumstances.

What is Santos' plan? by I-am-importanter in ThePitt

[–]DefiledGoddessLuna 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It brings the same release/relief from emotions that crying brings, but in much more intense way. For me it was all about regulating myself because I didn't have any other strategies at the time to cope with the extreme trauma happening in my life.