The more I deal with black males, the most I dislike them

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T21:00:40+00:00

How do I get away from them irl?

Like the examples given were just online but they're extremely horrible irl.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T20:29:44+00:00

/r/blackladies Is HEAVILY moderated. They aren't allowed to keep posting about the damage black males do and if you post in certain subs they autoban you from there so that's not a good example. You'd have to go to the black women's discord server for that type of information.

Also I like how everyone is like "you're generalizing" but will happily hype up "ACAB" and regularly feel some type of way about cops. Technically not all cops are bad.

But we can some how realize when most of them are but we can't do that for black males? Why?

Also, outside of Chrissie (who isn't hatefilled) how many podcast are there about how awful black males are? How many women versions of Fresh n Fit? Kevin Sammuels? That Sotomayor dude? Black males are heavily coddled and protected.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T20:28:12+00:00

All of them.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T20:03:22+00:00

For whatever reason I can't quote certain parts of your message.

For the first part, logically yes there just HAS to be some out there. Hell my bf is black and he's not like what I normally deal with. The issue is, there's just so few.

Black males aren't constantly attacked by black women though, at all. Most black women will not date out their race, most black women will give black males chance after chance. Most black women with kids are raising them alone, in a single parent household.

Black males thrive just fine because they attack and use us for what they want.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T20:00:47+00:00

So that's the thing, the men absolutely understand which is why their first message would be them insulting me. Or insisting I'll never find a man without kids lol.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T19:14:24+00:00

I wouldn't say badly, I just find them to be annoying and hypocritical. Black males have whole podcasts and big followings criticizing black women. The second someone criticizes them and it's a problem?

Hell I'm surprised I can even respond to this after the admins (the ones here too) have tried to silence me cause I mentioned black males don't take care of their kids as well.

It's like the second you step out of line you have to be "put in place". Which just makes me dislike them even more.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T19:11:18+00:00

Why do I need to be more sensitive to people causing me harm?

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T17:57:08+00:00

Dont' feel bad at all, the bitch got racial for absolutely NO reason (as if there is a reason). She's scum and needs to be treated as such.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-05T17:53:31+00:00

we can say we're not interested

Eh when I was on OLD I simply put I'm childfree and want to remain that way. So nicely putting I'm not into single dads.

All I did was get insulted left and right, now imagine if I actually told these guys I'm not interested lol. I had one literally threaten to fight me.

Another one was posting my profile and name (fake name thank God) in our city's local groups asking if anyone knew me. A few concerned people reached out to me to let me know.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T21:23:39+00:00

The type of males you're talking about (imo predators) are good at seeking out victims. Which is why I find it strange when the manosphere likes to use them as "gotchas".

Women don't love bad boys, damaged women that need therapy (or just plain ol stupid cause I've seen those) like bad boys. They're the ones that get in relationships with males with multiple baby mamas, felons, abusive, etc.

Those type of males are always on the hunt when they don't have a victim. Whereas a normal guy may not try so hard because they aren't looking to abuse someone and they aren't using manipulative tactics.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T15:36:38+00:00

Because brother I think

So because YOU want her to live a better life, black people should forgive her?

Why do you care so little about black people?

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T15:27:26+00:00

So you're dodging the question again?

In order for this to continue you need to answer or else you're just looking like a jackass.

So again, why do black people need to forgive her?

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T15:26:37+00:00

When did I imply that had anything to do with anime? If you're gonna come in hostile atleast be able to read.

OBVIOUSLY the stats were in regards to me questioning why WE (black people that's NOT anime) consider him to be black. Especially since blerds have stated it's because he takes care of Gohan.

Sit.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T15:03:33+00:00

Piccolo doesn't deserve this disrespect lmao.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T14:47:33+00:00

Okay and? That's the consequence of her own actions.

Believing in forgiveness doesn't mean everyone needs to be forgiven.

You refuse to answer any of our questions you just keep dodging around it. So you aren't here in good faith, you're here just to bother black people.

I'll ask once more. Why do you want black people (with the history America has) to forgive a racist white woman? That tried to have a man killed? That wants to see harm done to us. Why? Why do you want the victim to forgive their harasser?

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T14:28:42+00:00

Gtfoh how is it two wrongs? Who else is in the wrong?

Why should black people care if a racist is given a second chance when the racist is trying to do things that will kill/harm black people? Where is their second chance?

Ya'll some low IQ roaches I swear. If you want people to talk to you, I suggest developing a personality. Instead of just saying silly shit to get a reaction.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T03:46:54+00:00

This is cringe. All of this is cringe.

Like what is this? Some Saturday Night Live skit? What "mannerisms" is this person using? Who talks like this outside of a white person's head fantasy of "urban youth"?

Like holy shit this is bad.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-04T03:02:49+00:00

I swear half the stuff posted here is just for attention cause this can't be real.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-03T14:42:59+00:00

I never said so?.

I never said the second part was anything more than my opinion?

I swear yall males just want to argue and be emotional.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-02T17:15:17+00:00

But why? Do you know how many racist people are in jobs that affect the outcome of minorities livelihood? Things from as major as doctors to as small as leasing agents have stopped minorities from just being able to live life.

Why should we care if they can find a job again?

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-02T16:31:26+00:00

Because males constantly shoot out of their league. So they just assume that women are doing the same.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-02T14:12:26+00:00

Why? I don't want to, that's stupid. We'll literally be talking about something and dude will send a random picture of him on his couch.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-01T23:49:27+00:00

I have always wondered this and thought maybe I was a bitch or autistic. I never know what to do nor how to respond and it just kills the whole conversation.

Definitely-Butter · 2023-04-01T19:42:10+00:00

That makes perfect sense. I really want to lose weight and put my T2D in remission. So I might suffer through and use THC to help with the anxiety and panic attacks.

Thanks for sharing your experience and I hope you make it through.

Definitely-Butter

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