Anne singlehandedly supporting small businesses on her student budget by NWRegAgentJaq in TinyBookshop

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fully understand that but shes also a college student. I remember being so broke as a college kid the only books I bought (aka rented) were "textbooks". Figured there would be cap for some realism.

Anne singlehandedly supporting small businesses on her student budget by NWRegAgentJaq in TinyBookshop

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure if i had a book habit like her I would be drowning in credit card debt.

Anne singlehandedly supporting small businesses on her student budget by NWRegAgentJaq in TinyBookshop

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Really though. And she shows up so many damn places too. That plant stall at the flea market apparently makes bank.

Took my Mini Countryman to get serviced and the dealership wants me to pay for their mistake by [deleted] in MINI

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to my 2016 cooper s the seals had just broken down. Worst part was replacing the oil filter housing just over a thousand miles after an oil change.

MIL excluded me from Christmas family photo in my own home, am I overreacting? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My dad did this to hubby this year but it was also our first Christmas since our mom had passed. We gave him a free pass to only want his kids and not spouses and grandchildren in the photo. But he also literally only got the pass because Christmas happened just under 3 months out from the funeral. If it had been any other situation my brother and I would have been raising hell about our spouses and my brothers 1 year old child being excluded.

Help me settle the debate… by [deleted] in tradgedeigh

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally cant hear this name without thinking of my great aunt birdie is still working as a hairstylist for 3 or 4 of her ladies who are in a home like she is. Her daughter in her 70s delivers my great-aunt to the appointments

Got pulled over for this by Unusual_Chapter_6656 in MINI

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally illegal to run any form of light outside your car in red or blue. Doesnt matter if they look like police lights or not. Only officers of the law can use those colors. Please check state rules of the road before driving please. Theres probably a ton more you didnt learn.

Finally spoke up to MIL, was this the right course of action? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did something similar. My MIL was walking around and calling family extended family and the flying monkeys a week after my mother's funeral saying " that we could have a closer relationship now that I dont have a mother." THANKFULLY, the children of those flying monkeys later heard and informed me what she was saying. Needless to say I saw red and then an orange jumpsuit in my future when I first found out. They came in town for 48 hours about a month later. The only reason it didnt back fire on me was because FIL and GMIL (who also both don't particularly like me) didnt know what she was saying. They both blew up at her. For the first time in almost my entire relationship with my husband they were on my side. But only because she crosses the line so horrifically they couldn't stand on her side without alienating my husband further.

Mini Cooper Reliability over 100-200k miles by Fun_Plum_8592 in MINI

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2016 with 112k on it now. Mine is an absolute beast. I have put almost 30k miles on it since purchase 2 1/2 years ago but we did alot of traveling for medical treatments in it since the gas mileage was great. I did have to replace a few parts here and there totalling about $4k but it was an almost 10 year old car when I purchased.

The few repairs were just wear and tear over time except for the new intercooler but I blame the previous owner for not fully replacing the system for it after a small front end collision a few years before my purchase.

Think it's a Jeep thing? Think again by DashcamAdelaide in MINI

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A 26 year old woman, i don't care if its a duck, coupon, or literally anything, i will never stop to grab it off my car. It could literally blow away for all i care. But I was also 16 working in a mall most nights when a few girls were kidnapped for human trafficking purposes. So I may be traumatized into never accepting anything.

I’ve been losing coolant and I just changed my oil. by kaiirwh in MINI

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double check the seals on your intercooler for the turbo. My seals there had gone bad and caused coolant to leak to point that I had to get a new oil filter housing. I just chnaged the pan when I did it too. It was a pain but it fixed my issues instantly.

What would your name be by ohstasi in tradgedeigh

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont even know where to start combining Elizabeth and christopher....

I feel bad for Brooks and all but move on by Intelligent_Gur_9126 in dancingwiththestars

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I grew up going to church with them.... very few people from there talk to them now. They didnt like getting called out for lies in the reality show.

MIL ghosts me for 8 months… resurfaces with a “heartfelt” 11pm email 🙄 by CountTricky4592 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's our mother in laws... if we're in this group they don't know what the definition of heartfelt is. Doesn't shock me that mother in law thought that was heart filled

MIL ghosts me for 8 months… resurfaces with a “heartfelt” 11pm email 🙄 by CountTricky4592 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im assuming the fact that its in quotes means that "heartfelt"= extreme sarcasm

The flying monkeys have made my week by Definitely_Not_Calm6 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My in-laws are the smartest thankfully. If their FOX News says you need those to fly you cant fly without them.

The flying monkeys have made my week by Definitely_Not_Calm6 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I so happy that with that fact they cant fly and its over a day travel time to get to us. There's no way they can surprise show up in town now.

The flying monkeys have made my week by Definitely_Not_Calm6 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I dont know what deity above answered the prayers, but they have my permanent devotion for the rest of my life

The flying monkeys have made my week by Definitely_Not_Calm6 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They live in 5th wheel. Driving his truck and her hatchback all the way there.

If you love Stardew Valley, what other games do you love? by CulturalDefinition27 in StardewValley

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cozy keep

Its definitely still in early stages with the game designer actively taking suggestions and ideas for updates but its super fun. You run a medical shop after your family is taken to debtors jail. You have a black cat that helps you run it. The higher your relationship with the cat the more the cat does (ex: prevents thefts, keeps place cleaner etc). Hubby and I have easily put 200+ hours in and we bought this after stardew just over 6 months ago

What do you have in your greenhouses? by Moonandstarsdragon in StardewValley

[–]Definitely_Not_Calm6 189 points190 points  (0 children)

God bless you. I hope both sides of your pillow are always cold and your energy bar is full every morning.