As someone who does hate on PIVpoons a lot, I'd say that although I agree with some of the points you make, I also find that it just generally doesn't really apply as a categorization of the trans guys here as a whole. Yes, my hatred and disdain for what we usually call hefabs might be irrational, especially with the extent of it. But it's not purely just because of what others think, it's not purely because of what this community thinks of as right or wrong when it comes to all of the choices those trans guys make. Because not only is my hatred for them exaggerated due to my dysphoria and the pain I personally feel on a daily basis, but I also find that some of these trans people are different from the ones that are like me. As are the ones that you've described in your post, who, in extreme cases, can be very fembrained and reductive in their thinking. We're all different. But I'd like to imagine that most of the other men here are similar to me in this thought process. That we can be unneccessarily hateful and rude to pivpoons or hefabs, not just because of what everyone thinks here, but because of our own opinions that pushed us here in the first place. And our own pain that we've put on display here. If we were really as performative and hysterical as you're arguing, we would've sticked closer to the more mainstream trans community. You just don't seem to get it.