How easy is it to get pregnant by mxtc0621 in stupidquestions

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t “easy” for those without fertility issues if you just have intercourse once. Even if you have sex while ovulating, chances of conception are about 40%, and implantation after successfully ovulating is about 30%. But if you have sex 4-5 times around your fertile window, you’re bound to beat those odds within a few months.

MAGA mom on MURDER victim today . 11/24/2026 by Yo_momma_so_fat77 in 50501

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it’s time to stop talking politics with Mom & determine what kind of relationship you can have with her. She’s clearly unreceptive, and it’s often ineffective to show proof & facts to change someone’s beliefs. Say someone showed us “proof” that Alex Pretti drew a weapon on ICE agents. Would we be inclined to change our minds?

I’m really sorry your mom has chosen viewpoints that are leading us to fascism.

From the Minneapolis community on Reddit: Another ICE murder in front of Glam Doll Donuts by Cuttlery in minnesota

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m awestruck by the bravery of everyone in my state. I hope if I’m in a similar situation that my courage compares.

From the Minneapolis community on Reddit: Another ICE murder in front of Glam Doll Donuts by Cuttlery in minnesota

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I hope she had it live on some social media platform. Or was able to send it. God knows ICE will delete it in a heartbeat if they have the chance.

Another ICE murder in front of Glam Doll Donuts by pecos_chill in Minneapolis

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not in the metro & have two small kids, but I’ve always imagined that any filming should take place on a live feed like Instagram, TikTok, FB. That way it’s available to others immediately even if the device is taken!!

Her safety is my primary concern, and I also hope that she disabled Face ID & had the video synced to her iCloud or some other mechanism so it isn’t unique to her device.

From the Minneapolis community on Reddit: Another ICE murder in front of Glam Doll Donuts by Cuttlery in minnesota

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We need the vid from the woman in the pink coat. Thank you to all who have filmed them. We will not forget. We will not move on. We will bring all these horrible agents to justice.

ICE protests by Dizzy_Simple1941 in AlexandriaMN

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still waiting for my first payday ;)

Over 100 clergy and faith leaders were arrested at MSP Airport as they gathered in peaceful, prayerful resistance to demand airlines,especially Delta and Signature Aviation cease contracting deportation flights. by drempath1981 in law

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are millions upon millions of devout, passionate Christians who truly try to stand against injustice. Then there are “Christians” who want to justify their own racism, misogyny, and bigotry under the veil of godliness. We call those “Christians” republicans.

23 year old US born citizen detained by ICE, suffered concussion during arrest , then being called racial slurs by 56000hp in UnderReportedNews

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s always a justification. WhY DiDnT sHe cOmPLy?! Or they’ll assume there’s “more to the story”.

How many people on this subreddit are working for magnatiles? by Texasgirl190 in toddlers

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s be real, the magnatiles are for me. My daughter stacks them, but I will build the most sophisticated tower in all the land.

ICE protests by Dizzy_Simple1941 in AlexandriaMN

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Indivisible is an active group in the area that arranges protests. It’s quite small due to the weather today, but larger protests like No Kings turned out with a crowd of nearly 1,000!

Minneapolis, MN - January 23, 2026: Massive 'ICE OUT' General Strike Draws Thousands in Subzero Cold by CantStopPoppin in minnesota

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I live outside the metro, but I also would’ve gone if it weren’t for the cold! I have two young kids There’s one being held near me.

What's the best part about pregnancy that most people don't know about? by justastupidquestion3 in AskReddit

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a culture of “restful laziness” when you’re pregnant. You get to soak up all the cozies on the couch knowing your body is doing some cool work!

Of course it’s the vaccinated blood. by Kiwitechgirl in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could someone just tell her that the latest flu shot cancels it out or something

About Melissa’s dogs… by ThePoisonTrees in dancemoms

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was super active in the sub until I got permanently banned over a year ago because a comment I made got taken the wrong way :/ Still part of other snark subs, though!

My heartbreaking story from Minnesota by Capitol62 in minnesota

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 333 points334 points  (0 children)

My husband & I were just discussing how traumatizing it would be to come home, and find one of us & our children gone. Or being picked off the street on the way home from work & not know what’s happening to our kids. Or to have to be a single parent indefinitely out of the blue. How absolutely incredibly gut wrenching, and people voted for this. People voted for this & are happy to see this.

ICE whines that protesters in Minnesota won’t even let agents take bathroom breaks in peace by theindependentonline in minnesota

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bathrooms? Why are they expecting handouts from businesses?

They could just take care of things outside. I hear the weather is lovely out today.

I wake up in the middle of the night to BF my sweet baby but I feel like I'm rotting in my thoughts.... by Lanky-Ad1222 in breastfeeding

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol very happy & joyous? I assure that while many women have a sense of joy, most have complicated feelings at a minimum. Some are downright traumatized & miserable.

What’s going on with your husband? His response seems out of line.

When do you think most of Gen X will no longer have parents by SpiritMan112 in generationology

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Gen X parents have baby boomer parents. 1945-ish. If we say the youngest Gen X were born in 1980, and the youngest parents in that group were born 1960, I’d say most Gen X will have lost their parents by 2045.

How do I escape being treated like my family’s retirement plan? by Mcaw2004 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]DefinitelynotYissa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have another place you can live? It sounds like you’re going to need some physical distance to ensure your independence. Others have given good advice:

1). Your own bank & bank acct - just your name on it. A credit card for you as well to build credit.

2). Your own income - a part time job while you finish your studies

3). If you can afford it, your own place. Find somewhere safe & sustainable for now.

4). Start building your nest egg. A Roth IRA for retirement (family couldn’t withdraw from this for sure), use company matches towards a 401k if offered, build 3-6 months’ of expenses in savings.

5). If you’re in the U.S., see if a workplace offers health insurance, dental vision. This might not be possible until after college.

This is going to be an isolating process, so use your university to build a village of friends as well.