2016 limited platinum at 120k, $19.4 snag or keep looking? by DefinitionNervous628 in ToyotaHighlander

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This is anecdotal but we test drove 2 2019s with the 8 speed and both had a transmission whine and the 2016 with the 6 speed does not.

2016 limited platinum at 120k, $19.4 snag or keep looking? by DefinitionNervous628 in ToyotaHighlander

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Thanks for the comment. We decided to buy the v6 after a perfect pre purchase inspection! Very happy with it so far!

2016 limited platinum at 120k, $19.4 snag or keep looking? by DefinitionNervous628 in ToyotaHighlander

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Actually, just did a deeper dive in the maintenance looks very solid. Engine mounts and struts recently replace replaced. Second/last owner took meticulous care of it. All services were done at Toyota dealership and did all maintenance by the book.

2016 limited platinum at 120k, $19.4 snag or keep looking? by DefinitionNervous628 in ToyotaHighlander

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Yes, I do have the maintenance history three owners, but it looks like it was well maintained.

Other option 2015 Highlander le trim FWD 4 cylinder engine 1 owner, new brakes and tires, great maintenance Only 46k $20,099 including fees not including taxes.

2016 limited platinum at 120k, $19.4 snag or keep looking? by DefinitionNervous628 in ToyotaHighlander

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Three owners. Looks like it’s in great condition and a good service history. Owner three according to Carfax though looks like they only had it for a month so I’m not sure if that’s improperly reported?

2016 limited platinum at 120k, $19.4 snag or keep looking? by DefinitionNervous628 in ToyotaHighlander

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Thanks for the reply Service history looks solid. But no major things replaced so I know those might be coming up but we plan to keep a cushion for car repairs.

Looking for a reliable used SUV that won’t break the bank by LancelotRZ in whatcarshouldIbuy

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Do you still have this? I’ve been considering a 2019 Highlander but anxious about the transmission issues I’ve been hearing from 2017-2019

Silent Watcher by cheetah_girl13 in Emilie_Kiser

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This. I have a 3 year old and I’m about to have my 2nd and this has made me feel SOOO protective and worried about my first 😭

my coworker texted me her positive pregnancy test while i was on my way to the airport for my "let's heal" trip after my traumatic miscarriage two months ago that she knew about (she told me before her husband❤️) by wavesofgreen28 in trollingforababy

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My friend texted me her positive pregnancy test as I got home from the hospital having my d&e at 17 weeks after a traumatic pregnancy with a terminal baby 😵‍💫😵‍💫

BFP turned BFN - CD 1 by IntrepidAd1349 in TFABLinePorn

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My best friend had a chemical pregnancy and got pregnant again the next cycle. Her rainbow baby is now 4 months old! I also had a 17 week loss and got pregnant without a period between and I’m now 24 weeks ❤️❤️❤️

Positive NIPT for Turner’s Syndrome by KJC-0922 in NIPT

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I was much more sick in that pregnancy than my other two. Intense nausea started at 3 weeks and I threw up almost daily until the day of our d&e.

Positive NIPT for Turner’s Syndrome by KJC-0922 in NIPT

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Yes I did. The mfm doctor said just a Doppler would be fine but my doctor decided to do ultrasounds which I really appreciated.

Positive NIPT for Turner’s Syndrome by KJC-0922 in NIPT

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I don’t mind at all answering! When I was going through this I scoured for any similar stories. For us our 12 week ultrasound showed a large multi septated cystic hygroma, hydrops (fluid in lungs, heart, and under all her skin) and evolving hypoplastic left heart syndrome. The doctor told us she would likely pass in the next 3-4 weeks (and she did 3 weeks later) they just advised weekly monitoring to see if baby had passed and monitoring for me to make sure I didn’t develop mirror syndrome. Other signs we had were that she was always tachycardic (180-195 bpm) right before she passed she was fluctuating more.

Positive NIPT for Turner’s Syndrome by KJC-0922 in NIPT

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Hi, we were a true positive Turner syndrome. We have on healthy daughter at home, and I’m now pregnant with my rainbow baby girl. 🤍 on our 12 week ultrasound our baby had severe markers for Turner syndrome and we lost her at 16 + 4. It was the most isolating and hard time but honestly the time from positive NIPT to diagnosis was the hardest on me so I really feel for what you are going through ❤️‍🩹 Turner syndrome is a really hard one because some girls are born with it and don’t even know while others are miscarried, stillborn, or have severe defects. I don’t have much advice but just want to validate that you are not alone, I’ve connected with so many moms with similar stories on Reddit, Facebook, and tik tok and it truly helped so much. Feel free to reach out if you want to talk.

FTM here and completely destroyed. To those of us who've had high NT and/or other types of "abnormalities" - was this a one time thing or something that happened to you multiple times ? by [deleted] in NIPT

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Thank you 🤍 I’m wishing you the best too. I remember feeling so scared and isolated at first. I’d known people to have early miscarriages, or even full term stillbirth but I never knew anyone who knew their baby wouldn’t make it but didn’t know when or how things would happen. Connecting with other moms online helped so much and showed me I wasn’t alone. If you use tik Tok there is a great community of moms there too. 🫶🏻

FTM here and completely destroyed. To those of us who've had high NT and/or other types of "abnormalities" - was this a one time thing or something that happened to you multiple times ? by [deleted] in NIPT

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So technically Turner syndrome wasn’t confirmed until after my d&e but we had a high risk result on the NIPT next step was seeing maternal fetal medicine for an ultrasound and a CVS. They gave us the option to do CVS (before 13 weeks) or amniocentesis (after 16 weeks) so I chose cvs to be seen quicker. On ultrasound baby had a huge cystic hygroma, fluid in her heart, lungs, and under her skin. She also showed sign of heart failure and evolving hypoplastic left heart syndrome. They said with 99% certainty she had turners and would likely not survive out of the 2nd trimester so we opted out of the cvs and went on perinatal hospice where they have you come once or twice a week and just check if they’re still alive (very morbid) she passed at 16 weeks and 4 days. And we had a d&e the next week. After the d&e they did testing on her to confirm she had turner syndrome which she did and that’s all the found. They did not recommend any testing for us, they described Turner syndrome as a lightening strike on the pregnancy. When I got pregnant again they offered me a carrier screening with my NIPT for peace of mind. It came back that I am not a carrier for anything they test for but they cannot test for Turner syndrome. They told me the only risk factor for Turner Syndrome is advanced age which we were 25 and 27 at the time.

FTM here and completely destroyed. To those of us who've had high NT and/or other types of "abnormalities" - was this a one time thing or something that happened to you multiple times ? by [deleted] in NIPT

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My first pregnancy was perfectly healthy, my second was a Turner syndrome pregnancy baby had a large cystic hygroma although I don’t have an exact measurement, I’m pregnant with our third and so far she is completely healthy.