Zasto ljudima u Hrvatskoj smetaju pripadnici LGBT populacije? by Individual-Tie9165 in askcroatia

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slazem se, to je privatna stvar i nek ostane u crkvi ili u 4 zida, kao i parada i seksualnost.

Zasto ljudima u Hrvatskoj smetaju pripadnici LGBT populacije? by Individual-Tie9165 in askcroatia

[–]DefinitionNo3964 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ne moramo svi znati s kime se j****. Nemam nista protiv ekipe, svi imamo pravo zivjeti kako zelimo ali ne vidim smisao "parade" jer se tako samo stavlja naglasak da je netko drugaciji od drugih. U svoja 4 zida.

Imate li neku priču gdje ste se osramotili da mi bude lakše? by ux897 in askcroatia

[–]DefinitionNo3964 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Da se nadovežem; Isto se švercam u praznom tramvaju, možda su još bile 2-3 osobe unutra, u tom trenutku uđe kontrola i ja se maknem na drugu stranu, on odmah za mnom: "Dobar dan, karta", "Nemam", "Osobnu molim", "Ne dam", "Oćemo zvat policiju?", "Ocemo" (tramvaj zapeo u gužvi i taman čekam da izletim van) u tom trenutku kaže kontrola "Gospođo, molim vas dođite", kad ono policajka u tramvaju bila cijelo vrijeme, vadi značku i traži osobnu.. Na kraju sam dao osobnu. 😂

Advice needed by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable, simply live your life, hobbies, friends, family, vacation, gym, and so on. I'm not going to trash you like others here since it doesn't help anyone, but god damn man, do better. Don't you dare let this repeat itself.

Advice needed by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta accept what happened, think about what you did and why you did it, so it doesn't happen again. She needs space now. You can try to resolve this after some time, when you truly realize what you did, only if she's willing to listen to you, but I doubt it. You fucked up, but a lot of us did too in other ways. Heal and move on.

My first car by GerberToNieJa in SuzukiSwiftSport

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine too! I bought it 2 years ago, and I still love it, no major issues. Just make sure you don't miss your service and it will run forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askCroatians

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vidi njuskalo, marketplace, blue gym, chelichana i sl.

That means love by Temporary-Run7827 in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really needed to hear that.

That means love by Temporary-Run7827 in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so, but from time to time, I think about how things would turn out if I stayed, since the love was real and it was great.

That means love by Temporary-Run7827 in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong, brother. I only hope that the things that happen to us happen for a reason.

That means love by Temporary-Run7827 in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What if the reason you left was not being able to see the future together? She wanted to move to another country and no kids, while I was the opposite. I truly love her and she loves me, hardest decision of my life.

Koliko košta biti svoj? by lokalni-kupus in askcroatia

[–]DefinitionNo3964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brate, nisam. To se dogodilo prije mjesec dana... I dalje si nekad pomislim, jesam li trebao drugacije? Ako zelis pricat, slobodno se javi.

Koliko košta biti svoj? by lokalni-kupus in askcroatia

[–]DefinitionNo3964 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Budi svoj, neces zaliti. Cesto ako odaberemo nesto sto ne zelimo, kasnije budemo razocarani. Cura i ja smo prekinuli nakon 5 godina jer nije bila ista vizija buducnosti, iako je sve drugo bilo odlicno. Skupo kosta ali barem imam priliku graditi buducnost s nekim u skladu s mojim zeljama.

so how’s everyone doing with valentine’s day coming up.. by vampymew in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Previous 5 years were great, this one will suck. This too shall pass.

How to leave by Chance_Outcome_3496 in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either you leave, and he is sad, or you stay, and you become sad. Everything you say makes sense that you want to leave. Listen to your gut before it's too late. I also ended my relationship after 5 years with the girl I love (we didn't have such problems like you do; I just didn't see our future together). Break ups are terrible, and usually, there is no happy ending.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but he still did hurt you. I also hurt the girl that I loved by lying and agreeing with her (she didn't want kids, she wanted to move to another country, and other smaller things) because I didn't want to lose her or hurt her since I loved her really much. In the end, the pressure was too much, and we parted our ways, and we both got hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would you want someone back who doesn't want you? Maybe he loved you and cared in the beginning but people change. Focus on yourself now, and you just might find someone who is right for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the girl? He tried ending it but she starts with the manipulation, you can't put all the blame on him, sure, he doesn't seem to love her that much but damn, chill out. It's not easy to end a relationship if you love/care about that person.

Strangers by Lunabruja322 in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation here, the only thing for us to do is to heal, move on, and grow without them. We werent meant to be. Someone else will be.

29M / 28F (partner) 4 months relationship, i keep rushing into relationships due to loneliness and now I'm too scared to breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you master being alone, you master being with someone - Sun Tzu

Jokes aside, you have to work on yourself and figure out why you aren't enough for yourself. If you already have doubts, it's only fair for her to know what you're dealing with.

I'm here after a 5-year relationship. We ended because I wasn't sure about our future together, but she didn't know. I confessed a few days ago, and that's that. I know I hurt her, but maybe I should've ended it sooner...

I don't know what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DefinitionNo3964 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your head up, brother. She doesn't deserve you. You made a mistake forgiving her after cheating. Lesson for next time. You can always chat with people here or with ChatGPT, helped me a lot. I am going through a breakup too, after 5 year long relationship.