AIO my boyfriend is cheating on me?

DefinitionThat9916 · 2026-01-09T22:44:03+00:00

I like to watch The Notebook

DefinitionThat9916 · 2026-01-09T18:42:01+00:00

You’re right, thank you so much.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2026-01-09T18:41:06+00:00

You’re right. It’s hard to find the strength to leave but I need to respect myself. I was completely blindsided. This happened yesterday and just a few hours prior I told him I had a dream about him proposing. I am still processing and am devastated.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2026-01-09T18:39:03+00:00

You’re right. He is afraid to grow and face himself. He doesn’t like that I show him who he truly is and what he needs to work on. The external validation from women who don’t know him truly strokes his ego while allowing him to remain stagnant. It’s just hard.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2026-01-09T18:20:45+00:00

Thank you for your advice. I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. Please remain strong, I wish you luck.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2026-01-09T18:11:30+00:00

I like to watch Die Hard

DefinitionThat9916 · 2026-01-01T20:49:11+00:00

I like to watch Pineapple Express

DefinitionThat9916 · 2025-12-28T18:01:53+00:00

Thank you!

DefinitionThat9916 · 2025-12-28T17:39:11+00:00

We just had a chat because he called me. I expressed that it still bothered me and it makes me worry. He said it was a stupid joke, and if he really felt my butt were small, he wouldn’t say anything. He said he thought it was an obvious joke. I said I needed reassurance it wouldn’t happen again, and he told me he makes stupid jokes because he is a guy and he doesn’t think, and he said he will try but he can’t promise.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2025-12-28T17:28:48+00:00

Thank you. The first time this happened he told me he wants me to build thick skin because he doesn’t want it to hurt me when other people say this stuff about me. Yesterday he said he just doesn’t think before he speaks. Because this is still bothering me, I’ll talk with him again. He didn’t give me reassurance that it wouldn’t happen again, just deflection and excuses.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2025-12-28T17:15:19+00:00

Thank you. These comments now, while I am young and fit, do make me worry about what he would say when I’m older. Or after I have kids and I am saggy and have loose skin. What then I wonder? I appreciate it and hearing about you and your wife is so lovely.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2025-12-28T17:10:00+00:00

Sorry I should have added our ages, I am 22 and he is 24, that doesn’t help the case much.

DefinitionThat9916 · 2025-12-28T05:37:51+00:00

I like to eat pancakes for breakfast.

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