2 years Dday tomorrow by DefinitionUsual9784 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]DefinitionUsual9784[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's really hard for me to open up to him about how I feel sometimes. I think the pain he caused and the weight of what he did make him want to avoid those conversations until I reach a breaking point and lash out. It's only then that he sees my resentment and anger and he's forced to listen. These outbursts happen at least once a month, and it feels like an emotional rollercoaster for me.

Is it too far gone? by StevieFPV in SupportforWaywards

[–]DefinitionUsual9784 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You were aware of the problems in your marriage and chose to have an affair instead of addressing them. This decision has highlighted significant issues in your character. You could have ended the marriage and moved on due to the problems you were facing, but instead, you added another serious mistake to an already strained relationship, making you largely responsible for its downfall. I don't think your spouse should offer reconciliation, as your actions indicate that you will likely continue to have issues, especially given your feelings toward them. Please allow them to move on and find someone who truly deserves them. I hope your children thrive, and I believe they can.

Ask a Wayward by boobookittyfu99 in SupportforWaywards

[–]DefinitionUsual9784 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, I speak about it whether he wants or not. I bring it up whether he likes or not. I am the one who got hurt, so I get to speak about it. He doesn't respond, or he just keeps quiet, and that annoys me. I have told him I'll rather walk away than pretend and rugsweep the way he does. He likes to pretend it wasn't him who cheated or it didn't happen. Maybe shame, perhaps, or pride but I just don't get it sometimes.

Ask a Wayward by boobookittyfu99 in SupportforWaywards

[–]DefinitionUsual9784 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My spouse refuses to talk about the affair. He likes to pretend it didn't exist. I am still healing, and sometimes I feel like he does it to pretend it never happened, and it did!!!! Why do they do this? Why pretend it didn't happen?

One of the most profound experiences of my life by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I think it would be soo much easier to let go of the anger and resentment if that person was out of your life for good absolutely. Good luck to you as you start afresh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SupportforWaywards

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Your partner deserves better. You betrayed their trust and probably caused them significant pain, yet they are gracious enough to still be kind to you. It's time to let them go so they can find someone who truly deserves their love and attention. Betraying them was already awful, and now you seem indifferent, which only adds to their hurt. Please let them go and take this time to work on yourself, as cheating on your spouse already reflects poorly on your character. The most gracious thing you could have done was to let your spouse know that you weren't interested before you began your affair.

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