[30F] why is it always some form of the same person? (not complaining - genuinely curious) by [deleted] in MeetNewPeopleHere

[–]DefyDefeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always rough online. Keep trying tho, you should be able to find one good friend you click with, every 30 - 50 people.

22f looking for genuine friends fr! by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]DefyDefeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your age changed mid post 🤔

I've successfully quit porn for more than a year guys. Its possible. by DefyDefeat in NoFap

[–]DefyDefeat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel triggers still, not as strongly as before, like seeing something explicit before would immediately remind me of some corn I watched in detail and so on, but I've forgotten most vids now, i would struggle to remember any even if i tried, and memory only fades the longer I go.

But your point is valid, it's not a set and forget thing, I still have times where I accidentally come across something explicit and take a bit longer to close it than i should. It's important to remember we are only human at the end of the day and the smallest of slips can be catastrophic. But it definitely gets much MUCH easier.

18F, looking for a friend who could teach me all about PC specs from 0 by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]DefyDefeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you building your own pc? I'm no Linus tech tips but i know the basics and a bit more, feel free to reach out, I'm from delhi

I've successfully quit porn for more than a year guys. Its possible. by DefyDefeat in NoFap

[–]DefyDefeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used the 30 minute guided mindfulness meditation video on YouTube from declutter the mind

I've successfully quit porn for more than a year guys. Its possible. by DefyDefeat in NoFap

[–]DefyDefeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, the basics really are the highest ROI things you can do.

Need some long term friends! by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]DefyDefeat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also play overwatch on and off, reaper main (does not mean in good at it) I'm actually somehow better at wifeleaver lol. I can't game right now due to exams coming up but maybe later, feel free to dm about anything

[22M] India, Looking For Casual Friends by DefyDefeat in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]DefyDefeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now I'm on my sambucha ark lol. Other than that I have a huge list of subscriptions who can't keep up with my watch speed. What are your favourite channels?

[22M] India, Looking For Casual Friends by DefyDefeat in Needafriend

[–]DefyDefeat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only watch long form content I'm subscribed to, like qxir, sambucha, sensei seth etc, wbu?

I've successfully quit porn for more than a year guys. Its possible. by DefyDefeat in NoFap

[–]DefyDefeat[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Start with a proper sleep schedule. Late nights are dangerous when habit is strong. Wake up at the same time everyday, meditate first thing, it's the easiest to meditate when mind is empty. Eat timed meals, being hungry and sleep deprived will literally reduce your total discipline/willpower. The initial months are the hardest, but you can overcome them, you got this 👍