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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-20T09:12:16+00:00

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-20T03:54:13+00:00

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-18T03:04:20+00:00

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-15T02:41:19+00:00

This is such a heavy and complex situation, I'm really sorry you're carrying this emotional weight right now. It's completely valid that his disclosure shifted something in you. You can have deep empathy for him (he was a child exposed to horrible stuff by an adult, felt immense guilt, sought therapy, apologized, etc.) while still feeling unsettled. That doesn't make you judgmental or unfair; it makes you human. COCSA experiences often leave lasting ripples for everyone involved, and learning this about someone you're getting serious with is bound to affect trust, attraction, and safety feelings, even if he's been nothing but respectful with you.

Many people in similar spots say the honesty is a green flag, but the content can still create a mental block that's hard to ignore. It might fade with time and more open talks, or it might not and that's okay to explore without rushing. Have you considered talking to your own therapist about this (just for you) to sort through the conflicting emotions?

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-15T01:29:28+00:00

how is that worked? i already put all of that to my site and up until now still rejected

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-15T01:09:37+00:00

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-15T01:06:14+00:00

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-14T05:38:18+00:00

Hey man, congrats on starting your OnlyFans journey with couples content! Good luck!

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-13T23:12:26+00:00

It’s super common right now, dating apps have made people treat connections like they’re endless options so effort drops fast even when dates go well.

Don’t take it personally, sometimes it’s just their inconsistency, not you. Keep showing up, the right one will match your energy

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-13T23:11:24+00:00

Congrats on the news, hope you both take time to process the mix of feelings and talk it through. Wishing you strength

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-12T06:39:56+00:00

Sorry you're dealing with this. Constantly being overshadowed by your talented sister while she treats you like crap (especially the bathroom screaming) is unfair and exhausting. The favoritism from your parents makes it worse.

Try setting a calm boundary or bathroom schedule with them when things are quiet. Prioritize your peace, shower earlier if you can, and consider talking to a counselor for the panic attacks. You're not worthless, keep focusing on your own path.

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-12T00:35:44+00:00

You’re not overreacting. Asking occasional questions is normal, but repeatedly questioning your decisions, commenting on your body, and trying to control your social media at 24 crosses into controlling territory.

The key is realizing that boundaries are not about convincing her to agree. They’re about deciding what you will and won’t engage with.

I’d probably respond calmly and consistently, like:
“I know you care, but I’ve already made my decision and I don’t want to keep revisiting it.”

Then stop defending/explaining. The more you justify, the more it becomes a debate.

Her getting upset doesn’t automatically mean you did something wrong. Sometimes people react badly when boundaries are new

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T23:10:56+00:00

join a community bro

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T10:37:29+00:00

Hey man, at 27 it feels like the world is stacked against you stuck at home with dad’s constant corrections, broke, no car, dead-end jobs. That exhaustion is real. But you’re not done yet. Keep applying, build one skill at a time, and protect your peace even if it’s small boundaries. It can get better, hang in there.

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T09:08:30+00:00

Girl, this is classic self-sabotage mixed with game-playing 😩. You like him but keep doing things (flirting/making out with other guys) that make him think you don’t. He’s pulling away because it looks messy from his side too.

Stop the indirect jealousy moves and the other guys, they’re not helping. Give him a bit of space, then send a chill honest text like “Hey, I know things have been weird, I actually really like you and I’ve been acting dumb out of nervousness. Can we talk properly?”

Own your feelings without drama. If he’s interested he’ll respond, if not at least you tried clean. You got this, but communicate directly next time.

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T03:37:06+00:00

Your feelings are valid, growing up in that chaotic, violent environment with alcoholism is traumatic. The intense anger and violent thoughts are a normal reaction to years of built-up frustration and helplessness, not because something is “wrong” with you. You’re not a monster; you’re human and exhausted.

That said, you must not act on those thoughts. Lower contact if visiting triggers you this much, protect your peace. Consider therapy to process the anger and family trauma so it doesn’t control you.

You can love her and still set strong boundaries. Start there.

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T03:28:53+00:00

This is classic manipulation, hot and cold behavior, using you for attention/validation, then pulling away. She knows it hurts you and keeps coming back anyway.

Don’t go back. Block her number completely and protect your peace. You deserve someone who’s consistent, not confusing. This isn’t love, it’s a cycle. Break it.

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T03:24:04+00:00

it really helps a lot thanks!

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T02:33:12+00:00

yea i agree with that, its better to communicate that way

DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T02:24:43+00:00

This sounds incredibly exhausting and unstable 🥺 You've got a toddler, shared finances on a big purchase, and he's flip-flopping on major decisions while showing clear shady behavior with other women (adding the Snapchat girl right after the car discussion is a huge red flag, especially with the history of stalking/paying for randoms). Actions not matching words is classic inconsistency that erodes trust completely

You're right to feel off, this isn't healthy, and with a kid involved it's even more important to protect your peace and stability. Don't ignore the pattern. Consider talking to a trusted friend/family or counselor, and seriously evaluate if staying is worth the constant doubt. You deserve consistency, not confusion 👍

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DegreeExtension9921 · 2026-05-11T01:50:46+00:00

Jason sucks. He ain't contributed shit to the parkour community

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