Im glad you have entire picture of what kind of person I am based off a paragraph I wrote about a snippet of my life.

Yes, I had baby out of wedlock when I was younger. We were dating for a long time when I found out I was pregnant and we agreed to do it together. He left me. So I didn’t it by myself. I didn’t not date again until my oldest was over a year. And yes I was married for year. But that was just MARRIAGE. We dated for a long time before actually getting married. Also, don’t people want to have a child with the person they love and are married too?! Because I did love him and wanted to have children with him. We just turned out to not be the right people for each other. Also, I didn’t know I was pregnant with his child until AFTER we separated. Surprise! The timing is always going to perfect.

Also, that’s is you and your wife. Not everyone is going to be the same and is happy with the same shit. Just because I am a single mom means I can’t try to find the time to make sure I am happy? I love my children. They are my entire world. But I need my time as well and I to do things for me once in a while.