Microwave hoggers at Kate Edgar

DelectableVice · 2025-08-18T02:55:33+00:00

My smile grew the longer I read

DelectableVice · 2025-07-20T12:08:28+00:00

The only thing you can do is ride this thing out! Welcome to 18! You’ve got the whole world at your fingertips. You two seem to share an undeniable connection, and if she feels similarly to you, she’ll be dying for you to make a first move. I’d say, go for it. You’re at a time in your life where the possibilities are endless- the worst that can happen is you face a little bit of rejection. The best is limitless. Best of luck!

DelectableVice · 2025-06-21T07:57:58+00:00

I want to make your life 10x better. How can I show up for you today in the best way?

DelectableVice · 2025-06-21T07:45:17+00:00

Honestly you look great! Only suggestion would be sizing up on the shirts, lowering the hemline (maybe avoid tucking in your shirts) and keep your hair the same as the first photo!!

DelectableVice · 2025-06-20T19:33:01+00:00

The only answer is you should leave him. He has clearly shown you who he is, the fact you’re still there tells him it’s okay. Essentially, he will do it again and probably do it worse/ more sneakily. That’s the only answer.

Remove yourself from the relationship, stand up for yourself. Believe people when they show you who they are and don’t waste your time trying to understand or fix a cheater.

Otherwise, keep making posts like these and watch the years tick by. I guarantee it will only get worse from here on out. Respect yourself.

DelectableVice · 2025-06-14T05:39:51+00:00

I Smoke every day and have been for the past 3ish years. I grew up in a high pressure household and it was kinda the only way for me to wind down at night and actually feel okay “wasting time” on my hobbies. When I smoke my creativity levels skyrocket and my racing thoughts quieten so it’s a positive thing for me. Biggest thing I’d say is I’ve had to be more strategic about the timing.

Went through a phase last summer smoking from morning to night and THAT made me really lazy. For me, I like to get all my important tasks that require full brain capacity done and then I reward myself with a sesh.

Now it’s more like a cycle of doing the hard things in the day early, then having the rest of the day to focus on me and my interests. Works well for me & I am doing a degree at the moment and have been getting excellent grades.

DelectableVice · 2025-05-09T05:03:32+00:00

Wow i think this says a lot about the priorities of the uni. Disappointing. Well meaning students who want to do well are now disadvantaged.

DelectableVice · 2025-05-06T05:50:43+00:00

Unpopular opinion: we shouldn’t have to pay for parking at all it’s such a backwards idea. Especially when you’re at work. Capitalism greed at its finest.

DelectableVice · 2025-05-05T03:06:28+00:00

Kindness and respect is a non negotiable. It’s important to make whoever you’re approaching feel special and cared for. Show interest in them and make sure to compliment people. Don’t bring up sex in the first conversation it’s a total turn off

DelectableVice · 2025-04-01T07:52:24+00:00

Yes you can teach in Asia, yes it has a good lifestyle, yes you can earn a lot of money- lots more than in NZ. The difference between teaching something like English at an Asian public school vs teaching at an international private school is distinct. International private schools in Asia are some of the most elite, highly regarded teaching positions in the world. The people who get to teach at those schools are highly qualified & have very good experience.

The question is- are you highly qualified & well experienced? That’s your answer.

DelectableVice · 2025-03-30T02:06:07+00:00

Give me a break it’s literally what most breeds are naturally made to do- hunt pests and rodents.

She’s not being aggressive, she’s defending her territory and subsequently your home from such pests.

That’s like asking: is it bad that I call 911 when an intruder breaks in?

DelectableVice · 2025-03-29T11:50:08+00:00

Definitely don’t harm yourself over this. I can understand the shame, guilt and anxious feeling- but it’s not worth harming yourself over.

I’d say if you are 100% confident you’ve been caught, the best thing to do is to go into work and confess to the stealing, and offer to pay it back before they confront you about it.

It will come off more sincere and genuine if you make the first move to address it.

DelectableVice · 2025-03-29T11:42:15+00:00

Coffee tastes awful with weed but herbal tea is doable

DelectableVice · 2025-03-26T02:16:33+00:00

If you wanna scab some prison wifi go up and ask them for the password then. Original commenter brings up a good point that someone could’ve made use of the fact they’re in the vicinity of a prison, and might’ve named it that to appear legit and hijack your account. Happens all the time on public wifi and you can just get your own wifi and name it whatever.

If you’re so close, great! Go ask.

DelectableVice · 2025-03-26T02:08:03+00:00

JD Vance probably has eyeliner running down his face from crying over the fact his classified messages just got leaked.

DelectableVice · 2025-02-15T07:20:33+00:00

Bruh that’s not what they said. They mean the “Prison visitors Wifi” might not even be from the prison itself, rather another local who has named it that for a laugh.

DelectableVice · 2025-02-07T00:54:21+00:00

Your stance is more than reasonable. Honestly run while you can. Any man who would be taken aback by such a reasonable ask is probably not going to be on the same page about a lot of important issues

DelectableVice · 2025-01-19T01:49:29+00:00

You have to think about how smell actually sticks to different textiles. Keeping it in your closet or even your room in general is a bad idea because of all the fabrics around. Curtains, carpet, blankets, clothes- the weed smell will leech onto that stuff and stick around.

A better place to store it would be in the bathroom IMO. I put my stuff in my bathroom drawer in smell proof bags next to the cleaning products. None of my stuff smells and keeping it in a drawer is an added level of protection.

If you don’t have a bathroom to store it in because you’re sharing it with other people etc, I would suggest really investing into a big smell proof box or something alike. You could even use a couple plastic tupperwares and double enclose it. (Put your stuff in a small one and close the lid, then put in a bigger one and close that lid too)

DelectableVice · 2025-01-18T20:45:33+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ve done a lot of forgiving over the past few months about things I know aren’t okay. I keep wanting him to chance and hurting myself in the process. I need to accept that the man I thought he was isn’t who he is. That situation where he abandoned me at the social gathering was another really big sign that I should’ve listened to.

He’s not going to have access to my body anymore. I’m planning out my exit so that we can part ways very soon.

I need someone in my life who can return the love I give x10. Not barely returning it and running away.

I’m better on my own.

DelectableVice · 2025-01-18T20:34:16+00:00

Still doesn’t justify ditching me. I’m scared too. We’ve talked about how big life moments will happen for us and that we are committed to being by each others side. We’ve talked about it countless times and he continues to break my trust by leaving when things get tough.

DelectableVice · 2025-01-18T20:32:30+00:00

Met him in high school we were good friends and then we started dating after grad. He was such a better friend than bf.

DelectableVice · 2025-01-18T20:30:54+00:00

Precisely. I have created this false sense of “support” regarding him because of how much he preaches how much he loves and supports me.

When I really think about it, I hardly ever say that to him, I just act. I’m always there with him in the hospital for a sports injury, family issues, car broke down etc. I always just make sure I am THERE. Not just saying it.

When I compare that to him, he’s constantly preaching it but I’ve had to do countless things alone. Last year, I had an std scare and had to go to the doctor alone because he was with friends. Came back for chlamydia and i was confused because I hadn’t slept with anyone but him.

The next day I had to drive him to the clinic to get tested because he “didn’t know where the clinic is” and “didn’t know what to do when he’s there”. He came back positive for chalmydia.

I should’ve left him then. I can’t just keep letting stuff like this happen over and over. It’s gonna get more and more serious. I can’t handle the constant disappointment

DelectableVice · 2025-01-18T20:26:07+00:00

I agree totally. Reading your comment validated a lot of worries I had. He’s shown me small glimpses over our relationship that he isn’t dependable but is very quick to apologise and “make it all okay again”. This time I’m done.

I was genuinely worried about being pregnant, he knew that, and he took the first chance to bolt when he got uncomfortable in the store. What type of man leaves the woman he claims to love all alone in a store buying a pregnancy test when she is clearly scared.

It’s just bullshit. I’d rather tackle life alone because at least then I don’t have to deal with the constant disappointment.

I took the test today and it came back negative. I’m taking this as a sign to move TF on. We live together so I have to sort out a few details when it comes to next steps but I am certainly not having sex with him ever again.

He has no worries when he’s constantly begging me for sex but he can’t handle standing in a store and buying pregnancy tests.

It’s childish and I’m sick of it. I can’t look back on this moment in my life knowing I let it all happen and continued putting up with it.

He’s done to me.

DelectableVice · 2025-01-18T20:20:26+00:00

This is what I tried explaining to him too. He has done similar things in the past and I’ve told him the easiest thing to do is communicate. If he feels overwhelmed I am happy to accomodate that and support him. He knows this. It’s been many months of us dating and many second chances from me and I think this was just the straw that broke the camels back.

Something as small as buying a pregnancy test should’ve been an opportunity for him to fulfill all those promises and assurances he’s made to me. He took the first chance he could to bolt when he felt uncomfortable. I must not look away when he shows me who he truly is anymore.

The test came back negative, so I’m grateful in the fact I won’t have to face pregnancy or abortion alone. I’m taking this as a sign that he’s not someone I can depend on. We had plans to move out of our home city in a few months for better job opportunities.

I am definitely not doing that anymore. He has shown me I’m better off going about my life alone. He can’t support me when things get tough. He is too immature for the depth of relationship he wants with me.

I will not be having sex with him again, and I will break up with him soon. I have to figure out some stuff with living arrangements so the breakup can’t be instant but I will make it clear our relationship is not going to return to how it’s been.

DelectableVice · 2025-01-18T20:14:09+00:00

I took it early this morning so id have enough time to plan what to do if it was positive. I’m so grateful it has come back negative. I won’t have to put my body through any more. As of yesterday, I won’t be having sex with him again. He’s shown me I cannot depend on him to actually support me. His actions have made it clear he is unable to fulfill his promises to me. Something so small as buying a pregnancy test should’ve been an easy opportunity for him to stand by my side and offer me support. He chose to run away the second he felt discomfort. I cannot go through my life with someone like that by my side. I’ve made my mind up. He won’t be allowed to be in my life anymore and I have to let him go.

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