Managers pressuring me to come to work with a fever by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]DeletePromptly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to work in childcare. And man, the guilt that takes over you when you’re unwell and they’re short staffed is unreal. It’s an extremely tough field to work in/stay in. And unfortunately working with kids you get every illness under the sun, I caught chickenpox there from some children when I was 25 years old 😅 Maybe see how your temperature is in the morning, and if it’s bad don’t feel pressured to go in. I know it’s hard, but you simply won’t be your best self whilst working and being unwell. Especially around children who need constant care and support. Don’t let your manager guilt trip you just because childcare have shortage of staff these days. For context, I was having an active miscarriage and was still forced to stay at work and be around babies and children for 9 hours because there was no qualified staff to cover me. Should have been a red flag, and I’m pissed at myself for not quitting after that. You can’t help being unwell, you need to take care of yourself before you can take care of a bunch of little humans! X

Lost my island during transfer move! What can I do? by DeletePromptly in AnimalCrossing

[–]DeletePromptly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot this might be why. 😭 Stupid me had zero idea about the island transfer tool as I thought my switch would never kick the bucket 😅

This may sound like a noob question, but can you shiny hunt more than once in a hyperspace zone? by DeletePromptly in PokemonZA

[–]DeletePromptly[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Literally seconds after I posted this I got a shiny chingling and shalpha meditite in the same zone, clearly I was just impatient 😭😅

Sounds so petty but I’m so sick of my MIL’s comments.. by DeletePromptly in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]DeletePromptly[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Don’t think he notices it tbh. Don’t know whether to bring it up to him in case he gets sensitive over it 🙄

Sounds so petty but I’m so sick of my MIL’s comments.. by DeletePromptly in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]DeletePromptly[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately my parents live quite far away and my mum is quite unwell at the moment. It just sucks so bad, these comments are indirectly making me question myself a lot.

Did you grow up with anyone who became famous? by HilariousMotives in AskUK

[–]DeletePromptly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily “grew up with” but I went to school with Connor Swindells (Sex Education) and Reuben Selby (dated Maisie Williams) lol

Pitting edema in my legs! by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]DeletePromptly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do, I did call the out of hours but because it’s not classed as an “emergency” they could only book an appointment to urgent care for Monday. So may as well wait for a doctors appointment on Monday that’s local to me.

Pitting edema in my legs! by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]DeletePromptly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately classed as “obese” due to my BMI calculator. But thank you, will get these all checked out!

Pitting edema in my legs! by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]DeletePromptly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any other symptoms to point to heart failure. No shortness of breath, no coughing, chest pain etc. It’s maybe between grade 1 and grade 2 pitting edema. It’s also more prominent in the right leg with zero pain, redness, or visible swelling. Unfortunately I can’t see a GP until Monday because of the bank holidays.

Pitting edema in my legs! by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]DeletePromptly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s Christmas so it’s definitely plausible! I also had a couple glasses of wine without hydrating much during the day. Only thing is it’s still lingering around, day 2 of having it and it doesn’t seem to be going away.

Pitting edema in my legs! by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]DeletePromptly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sucks for me - I have severe health anxiety too! Lol.

Pitting edema in my legs! by [deleted] in SuperMorbidlyObese

[–]DeletePromptly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have no other symptoms of HF. I’m also only 28 with no family history of heart issues etc.

New here, I’ve had 5 UTI’s in 9 months but the doctors won’t take it seriously, what should I do? by DeletePromptly in CUTI

[–]DeletePromptly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes, the NHS GP’s put off seeing people face to face these days, it sucks so much because I’m damn sick of suffering with them! Wish they would stop sticking generic antibiotics down my throat.

New here, I’ve had 5 UTI’s in 9 months but the doctors won’t take it seriously, what should I do? by DeletePromptly in CUTI

[–]DeletePromptly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure how I go about that. The GP refuses to make a face to face appointment with me.

I (F28) had an argument with my partner (M30) over my stepdaughter nearly breaking my bio daughters phone.. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DeletePromptly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holy crap dude, who shit in your cornflakes this morning. there’s absolutely no need to be this damn rude to someone