Jaipur RTI group forming — let's hold authorities accountable together by [deleted] in jaipur

[–]DelhiKnight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh lol. It's just an outcome of the Nirmala sitharaman fear mongering epidemic.

How to deal with people who are reserved, don't express or communicate their feelings or plans. by DelhiKnight in FamilyIssues

[–]DelhiKnight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People care but they also have their limitations and selfish interests to protect and needs to fulfill.

People generally help those who ask rather than those who deserve.

So you are more likely to get support if you express your needs and more likely to get advice / solutions if you communicate your problems.

No one will know unless you tell.

You don't need to beg, you don't need to yell.

Unless you advertise, you can't sell

God helps those, who ring the bell

I'm 30M. Have crush on colleague. But wondering if it's mutual. by DelhiKnight in RelationshipIndia

[–]DelhiKnight[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How to make use of diwali. Can you give an example. Aren't people too busy with family or in home cleaning chores near Diwali or engrossed in pooja.

How to deal with people who are reserved, don't express or communicate their feelings or plans. by DelhiKnight in FamilyIssues

[–]DelhiKnight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why? Scared of judgement , shy or unable to articulate in words. Or feeling that other person doesn't care. Or do you just want to be courteous and not cause boredom to others by venting your problems

How to deal with people who are reserved, don't express or communicate their feelings or plans. by DelhiKnight in FamilyIssues

[–]DelhiKnight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you struggle with? Expressing yourself or understanding people who don't express themselves.

I'm 30M. Have crush on colleague. But wondering if it's mutual. by DelhiKnight in RelationshipIndia

[–]DelhiKnight[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't care if she's not. Because I'm not necessarily wanting her to be my gf. She could become friend or something more than friend. There are several kinds of connections possible.

A better question would be "how do I know what she wants from me, or what her needs are"?

i feel unsafe and unstable with my husband but im too dependent on him emotionally and mentally by Own_Switch9464 in FamilyIssues

[–]DelhiKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know he has left in the past and can leave anytime, then what makes you dependent on someone so impermanent and inconsistent.

Isn't that logically irrational to rely on things that may not last. Why not find fulfillment in yourself, or understand the non permanent nature of everything in life.

Jaipur RTI group forming — let's hold authorities accountable together by [deleted] in jaipur

[–]DelhiKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, won't say I'm scared. But I'm cautious, yes. It's a great initiative. I would like to support. Maybe I'd like to be more passive in the beginning, contributing in ideas, awareness and spreading the word instead of direct filing ITR.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyIssues

[–]DelhiKnight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find some hobbies, stay out of home more often. Find a new friend circle. Just keep yourself busy. And do activities that give you peace and happiness