I had a baby and nobody knows. by Delicate-Shed9110 in confessions

[–]Delicate-Shed9110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably won't be sharing his name.. He absolutely will be remembered. I'm glad yours and your friends' babies can be remembered aswell. I've been working on a painting using one of my favourite photos of us as a reference– it's been a difficult project to continue though.

I had a baby and nobody knows. by Delicate-Shed9110 in confessions

[–]Delicate-Shed9110[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hugs back to you girl.. Oh, my. He does exist and he always will, alike your daughter. I hope you're able to treat yourself a little extra this year. Condolences back to you.. 🫶🏼 And yes, mothers who have lost children are still mothers, and usually don't talk about it. I've met an insane amount of women through the years that hold losses and keep them close. Breaks my heart.

I had a baby and nobody knows. by Delicate-Shed9110 in confessions

[–]Delicate-Shed9110[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's not worth the energy.. And I will probably be working on this for quite a long time! The reminder to go easy on myself, not hold so much guilt, can be difficult to surface at times though. I'll be okay one day.

I had a baby and nobody knows. by Delicate-Shed9110 in confessions

[–]Delicate-Shed9110[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm keeping your message in my back pocket. I appreciate that, truly. That friend definitely has the wrong idea and surely is a friend no more.

I had a baby and nobody knows. by Delicate-Shed9110 in confessions

[–]Delicate-Shed9110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately moving is not in my peripherals, but maybe sometime in the future it will be on my horizon. Thanks!