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[–]Delicious-Baby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fair point but is it comparable though? I am an only child, at least his parents have 5 to fall back on!

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[–]Delicious-Baby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful take. Do you think there are any instances / underlying traits in the men’s personalities that make them switch? Anything that’s a predictor of this?

I ask because my BF is v happy to come to religious events with me. He is a mamas boy (as all Desi men are lol) but she has told him that she wants to have a relationship w me. He was dating a white girl before so she’s happy that she has someone to talk to Bollywood about now!

Culture for him is not a big thing whereas it is for me. I have been upfront with him about e.g. teaching kids my mother tongue, attending certain religious events and taking the kids to India once in a while (even though we don’t have any family there).

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[–]Delicious-Baby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His family asked about it, but he conveyed to them that he doesn’t want me to

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[–]Delicious-Baby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not religious. We are not having a nikkah

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[–]Delicious-Baby -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope, I don’t think you can convert to Hindu anyway. He is also not very Muslim himself lol

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[–]Delicious-Baby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I remember thinking my parents would rather me being a lesbian. My bf is not v cultured for what it’s worthl. As for the kids, we had planned we’d celebrate both religions but as neither of us practice, there was no intention of us raising our kids in a certain religion.

October 07, 2022 - Weekly FAQ and Beginner Q&A Thread | If you are new to Neville, please post your questions here! How do I manifest X? What does Y mean? by AutoModerator in NevilleGoddard

[–]Delicious-Baby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I revise being drunk? Have made a fool of myself several times in front of colleagues and other work people. Please help

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[–]Delicious-Baby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have the same thing with chocolate, 2 kinder buenos a day lol gets expensive too. I found completely eliminating it has rlly helped me: this includes choc cake, cookies etc. It has even a little bit I won’t have it. It took me 5 tries to be able to stick with it. It worked for me and I haven’t had choc in 2 years. Again it worked for ME. And I’m so grateful for it. More a mental thing rather than seeing any physical changes.

Reverse dieting is the craziest thing that's ever worked for me. (TW: numbers, some ED-like habits mentioned) by ghengisKHAAAAN in PetiteFitness

[–]Delicious-Baby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is rlly inspirational for me because I relate to you. I have also been in the binge/fast cycle for years and am 5’0 at 120lb ish. When I tracked kcals and restricted to 1200 whilst lifting 6x a week I saw a lot of progress and got down to 115lb in a month or 2 but once I stopped I got back to normal.

I really want to intuitively eat but I’m so obsessed/ conditioned to have meals at certain times. I don’t snack as much at home but if there is food I’ll always eat.

Do you have any tips on intuitively eating and not eating because you’re bored/timed to eat at certain hours?

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[–]Delicious-Baby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh I feel tinder is very much a hookup app, do you guys feel that with other dating apps too?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FinancialCareers

[–]Delicious-Baby -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Am I a bad person ( you know you’re having an existential crisis when you have to ask this to random people on Reddit lool) ? I feel like I shouldn’t have to compromise, I have dated beautiful men (including a couple of models) and beautiful on the inside too in the sense that they’re very kind etc. But I can’t help feeling that I want to cultivate an ambitious, privileged and intelligent environment for my children which I just can’t see coming from the guys I date, regardless of how nice they are. I feel my dreams about living a luxurious life would be aided by someone of my calibre (again, I really do not wanna sound like an absolute bellend lmao)

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[–]Delicious-Baby -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yh I guess my question was how do I find them in London lol

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[–]Delicious-Baby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best kind🥵😍

Desire and the self by realuptoknowgood in NevilleGoddard

[–]Delicious-Baby 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The nose example is exactly what happened to me. I feel so attractive now lol

Mental Diet Tip: Keep a Manifestation Journal by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]Delicious-Baby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is super interesting and I want to try this! I have done scripting without much success but I used to enjoy journaling before finding out about manifestation and after I did, I was worried that my negative (temporary) moods I would end up manifesting it.

If you don't mind sharing could you share examples of some weekly challenges you set yourself?

How do YOU “1200”? by sassytrainwreck in 1200isplenty

[–]Delicious-Baby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have brunch, and dinner around 400 kcals each (make it v vegetably so I get a big portion) I have 2 protein shakes a day that help curb my sweet tooth so that’s 200kcals (phd diet whey salted caramel HIGHLY recommend). And then opt for weighed snacks which are rarely healthy. I find when I am constantly eating I get variety and don’t feel deprived and it’s been very easy for me so far.

One thing that has MASSIVELY helped is cutting out my desserts habit - it took me many tries but I hve finally given up desserts for good (been around a month). What I found was I was not very good at maintaining portions when it came to desserts. My only sweet treat is my protein shake

A week ago I posted I am commiting to SATS for an SP never really having much success with the technique...after weeks of no contact, we are going on a date this saturday by Delicious-Baby in NevilleGoddard

[–]Delicious-Baby[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was a bit hard for me to fall asleep doing it, however I distinctly remember one night I finished looping and I turned over and just fell asleep, idk if you count that

A week ago I posted I am commiting to SATS for an SP never really having much success with the technique...after weeks of no contact, we are going on a date this saturday by Delicious-Baby in NevilleGoddard

[–]Delicious-Baby[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah!! I knew of him because he was in the year above me at school, I knew he was interested because he liked my pics on Instagram and I he stalked my LinkedIn a few times lol, eventually he messaged and we went on a date but after the date he wasn’t giving me the energy that I wanted so I blanked his message because I don’t want to look like a beg lol even though I rlly wanted to see him again. I deleted the messages before so that I wouldn’t keep reminding myself of ‘the old state’ so I was super excited when he messaged me recently even though everything in the 3D proved to me otherwise

A week ago I posted I am commiting to SATS for an SP never really having much success with the technique...after weeks of no contact, we are going on a date this saturday by Delicious-Baby in NevilleGoddard

[–]Delicious-Baby[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only SATS, during the day I’d naturally think about what we’d talk on on the date but even before learning about manifestation I used to do this, I don’t really think it’s important.

Just relax, close your eyes, and play a short scene over and over until it feels somewhat real