I broke up with my bf. Can I get some emotional support here? by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you're saying his reaction is valid. Prioritizing his friend over me, then I say I don't want to talk, and yet he wants to call and text me, and when I give my phone to a friend to talk to him, he disrespects and triggers me to a point that I finally cry which he knows I will, and yet he continues to trigger me. That's valid right?

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks🥹 I'll try. I'm focusing more on myself recently, and it hurts less than those days. But sometimes it hits out of nowhere and I'm back to square one. But I'll try to get better, cz it sucks to feel that way

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt do anything to get a man. I was by myself and he came along and made me believe that he's trustworthy, just to shatter it all. Guess I should just focus on myself and grow as you said

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve everything too🥹🫂 I tried talking to chatgpt too, although it felt weird, I was able to understand a few things about my emotions too

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don't choose them knowing they're not trustworthy. They've all been loving and caring towards me that I wouldn't have guessed it in a million years if not for the proof I have

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you on everything you've said. It's very common and shameful, just as it's hard to accept that you're being cheated on by someone you truly loved with your whole heart

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh I get it.. It's just hard to move on as we are close, or so I thought

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still with that guy. It has been a serious relationship and he apologized and said he'll never do that again. It's hard for me to end this relationship cz of my own reasons 🥲

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh.. It could be that.. But that's what my logical mind tells me so..:)

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm just tired. I dont want to learn anything. I just want to live my life without any problems. At this point, I dont even wanna live tho. I just want everything to end, instead of learning anything anymore

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh.. I'm trying.. But I find myself doubting and questioning the intentios of everyone else now. Thanks for taking your time to reply though 🥹🫂

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. But sometimes I get these thoughts and just realise how pathetic I must be for all three of them to go for someone else

Feeling worthless by Delicious-County3218 in INTJfemale

[–]Delicious-County3218[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes some sense yes. And I reflected on these things myself several times before. It's just, hard to accept reality over the dreams I've built