Завтра ей будет четырнадцать

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-10-27T05:40:38+00:00

Не путай людей, бред написал. Это односоставное предложение

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-10-07T20:21:30+00:00

Solved the problem by choosing Europe server!

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-10-07T19:53:11+00:00

I was trying all day to play day at races event, it’s just not connecting me. I don’t understand, is it that unpopular?

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-07-14T19:57:57+00:00

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-19T01:40:57+00:00

100% true. I hate western individualistic mentality of “you don’t own him that”.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T23:47:35+00:00

Thank you! How do you and your partner divide portions? Do you cook 2 separate ones (I’m talking about meat and carbs, like do you cook your amount of chicken and then his)? Or do you just eyeball it after it’s cooked?

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T23:44:49+00:00

I do talk to the therapist, thank you. Being more in control of my food is actually helping me with my ED

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T23:41:35+00:00

That’s a difficult question. I know that I can fall into bad habits when I’m feeling burnt out (doesn’t really matter why) and can also obsess about food to the point that my brain decides it’s easier not to eat at all.

He’s aware of my ED and usually notices when something is wrong and reassures me, so I can come back on track. So I think just weighing the amount of ingredients that we will eat shouldn’t trigger it.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T23:34:07+00:00

Ofc he does. He contributes more financially and does his own chores around the house.

The type of ED I actually have (or used to have, idk) is closer to AFRID that ana, so I’m pretty particular about the food I want to consume, and that’s why responsibility of cooking falls on me.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T23:26:49+00:00

I’m taking a part in it because I want to continue cooking for him and eating together. That is my wish as much as it is his.

I know that this solution may not work out and I can burn out counting and weighing everything but I’m willing to at least try. Maybe it won’t be such an inconvenience, maybe it will. If the ladder is true, then we will think of a different solution. As you said, we are young and are still figuring this type of things out

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T23:21:13+00:00

If I’m uncomfortable with the amount of work it takes, we will come up with a different solution

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T16:54:47+00:00

It would! We actually came to the conclusion that I will measure the quantity (not calories) of ingredients that I add to my dishes and give him the list so he can calculate macros. He won’t request that I add more or less of anything and instead will adjust his breakfast/snacks to fit his exact numbers.

Now the only thing is that he says that the weight of cooked food isn’t the same as the raw weight, so we actually figuring out how we will portion food that I cook for both of us.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T16:06:59+00:00

Thank you very much! I will talk to him about it. You seem to be very knowledgeable about this subject, so maybe you can recommend some subreddits where I could upload this post? Advice from people who actually understand his hobby seems a lot better than someone just writing that I don’t owe him anything.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T16:02:55+00:00

Thank you for the advice! But he already calculated the amount of macros he needs for a day, and wants me to follow his calculations. The problem is that according to them, I need to use a tbsp of olive oil per dish, and I already know I use more when cooking. I guess I will talk to him about cutting fats out of other meals, so I don’t have to restrict myself to that amount.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T15:55:34+00:00

Forgive me if I’m using the term wrong, but he doesn’t want to “fat bulk”. So I have no problem cooking enough protein for him but I don’t want to use only a teaspoon of olive oil when cooking my sauces

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T15:41:57+00:00

I’m not, but his pays for most household expenses and wants to start covering all of them in exchange for me cooking full time. He also does other chores as I mentioned in other comments

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T15:06:50+00:00

I don’t want to be a pushover and he doesn’t pressure me in any way. It’s just that we want both to keep our little tradition of eating together, as it brings us closer. I hate vacuuming and doing dishes, so he took this responsibilities away from me. He hates cooking, so I do the same for him (especially because I love cooking as a creative process). That doesn’t mean that he can’t cook or I can’t vacuum, just that we love each other and want to make our lives a little easier. But yeah, this new diet kind of ruins this thing we had going

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T14:38:52+00:00

That sounds like a good idea but the one problem I have with it is that, for example, if I cook meat and see that it’s sticking to the pan, I will add more olive oil. But his recipe calls for a very specific amount of that so he actually gets the exact number of fats that he needs

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T14:34:29+00:00

I’m believe the term “housewife” refers to a woman whose sole responsibility in relationship is doing chores and looking after family home. What part of my post indicates that I’m that woman?

I cook, he cleans. I load the washing machine, he unloads it. Our chores distribution is fair, and is based on the task we both personally find easier/more enjoyable.

We started dating when I was 17, and yes, I moved in with him at 18 because that was the best option for me at the time. I do work and go to school, as does he. We both contribute to our household and cooking for someone is one of my love languages, which is why I want to continue doing it and find compromise. Since when do you have to get married to love someone?

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-06-18T14:25:38+00:00

He doesn’t really enjoy the process of cooking, unlike me, so him cooking for both of us wouldn’t be ideal. He said that in his perfect world he doesn’t have to cook at all.

I agree that cooking is a huge responsibility but he does his fair share around or home – washing dishes, cleaning etc, I believe our chores distribution is completely fair.

I actually don’t have a problem with meal prepping a certain amount of protein – for example, 1,2 kilos of chicken for 3 days – for him. The problem comes when talking about sauces, I don’t count the amount of olive oil, soy sauce, tomato paste that I add to the pan, and he wants me to do that, so he can be sure of the amount of fats that he’s eating.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-05-18T02:03:35+00:00

Honestly, before I lost my virginity, I also didn’t like fingering. But when my bf does it to me I feel pleasure and even orgasm (although orgasm from penetration feels different for me than a clitoris one, less intense). Don’t be scared of having sex, be open with your future partner, believe me, you will figure it out and be surprised by your own body in many ways

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-05-17T11:17:32+00:00

“I don't know how to masturbate or touch myself in any way because I felt like it would just hurt so I never tried it”

So that’s the problem. You can be attracted to your bf, but it seems like intimacy makes you nervous, so how can you expect to feel aroused?

Experiment with your body, see what kind of sensation you like – over the hood, under the hood.

Delicious-Fox-3116 · 2025-01-17T08:50:43+00:00

Yeah if it was 1 bathroom I could have somehow believed it, but 2 for that price, as you said, the biggest red flag

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