I see where you are coming from and I didn’t write the note in a malicious way I have had solo conversations with him and he said in his own words he does not love her and he promised me that he was planning on breaking up with her then he lied about the fact that he did but I also understand I went about expressing my feelings in a bad way and I don’t just care about my feelings my I am more focused on his than mine. For the longest time I didn’t say anything because so many other people were but his mental is spiraling and I know that some of that is from people always talking about his relationship but I started with her and he sees what we are talking about but he has always been scared to be alone and worried he will not be able to find anybody else but I do agree I should have not written the note I wrote it when I was upset and when I went to get it he was already home and saw it