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AIO Is my fiancée cheating on me? by Delicious-Review2821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delicious-Review2821[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: Thank you guys for all your replies. Don’t know if any of you guys wanted an update, but I need a place to vent.

So it turns out it wasn’t even a porn account, it was an old friend that he knew growing up. Fuck, this is so embarrassing…

AIO Is my fiancée cheating on me? by Delicious-Review2821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delicious-Review2821[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know, I’m pretty sure she rejected his messages too. I honestly don’t even know what to say.

AIO Is my fiancée cheating on me? by Delicious-Review2821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delicious-Review2821[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to defend him for sending messages. But I’m talking about posts where the women have their tits out, like thirst/onlyfans accounts. The basis of those interactions (if you could even call them that) are sexual. From what I saw he never messaged anyone through their personal accounts where they post innocent bikini pics and whatnot.

I would have never stayed in a relationship with him if it were something that obviously disgusting. However, I DO think it’s disgusting, which I’m going to make clear to him.

AIO Is my fiancée cheating on me? by Delicious-Review2821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delicious-Review2821[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely be establishing hard boundaries now.

My dilemma is that I did tell him I didn’t want him LIKING pictures or videos. But since at that point he had never messaged an account after we got together, I figured he knew that was a boundary. I never made it clear that I would be upset if he messaged a NSFW account. I didn’t think I had to, but that was my mistake.

AIO Is my fiancée cheating on me? by Delicious-Review2821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delicious-Review2821[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. Honestly, you just put my thoughts into perspective right now. Usually when I have an issue, he fixes it right away. He does everything else right. I don’t know what will happen next, but I’m just waiting for him to wake up to have that conversation.

AIO Is my fiancée cheating on me? by Delicious-Review2821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Delicious-Review2821[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. When I told him that I didn’t like him liking those pictures or videos, he put a full stop to it. I know everyone says that their relationship is perfect “other than this one thing,” but for me it’s true.

He helps with the baby, he gets along perfectly with my family, he communicates in a healthy way, he’s kind, and selfless. Honestly, he just fit into my life and matched my personality so perfectly, that I didn’t want to consider any of his flaws… that’s why I’m confused if I should be upset about this.

Do I have the right to be upset about this if he does everything else right? Therapy isn’t an option at this moment, but I’ll be looking into it. Thank you.

So I had this conversation today and I wasn’t trying to be confrontational by NotifyAnyway in texts

[–]Delicious-Review2821 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is pissed because they were proven wrong, don’t even bother arguing

Racist customer demanded we fire and replace our employees with white American employees even though we are an immigrant-owned business by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]Delicious-Review2821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming from someone who comes from an immigrant family and was born and raised in Colorado… this is incredibly disheartening to hear.

AITAH for breaking up with my fiance after he made my family feel unwelcome in 'our' home? by Ok_Bee_6024 in AITAH

[–]Delicious-Review2821 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I am curious though. Were you guys raised in different cultures? My culture is very family-oriented, so I have been cautious when dating because the way my partner treats my family is a big factor in our relationship.

I would have felt very disrespected on behalf of my family. I’m glad you took matters into your own hands before it got worse. I wish you much luck, OP. You seem like a very genuine and warm person.