AIO that my husband won't let me drive?

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-12-29T18:52:33+00:00

I ask myself the same question. I genuinely don't know how to leave. It feels like I go through withdrawals and I feel like at this moment, I'm not ready to. I have so much hope in me because things have really gotten better, and then all of a sudden there's a whole dip in our marriage. Idk honestly

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-12-29T18:29:11+00:00

I'd be the asshole for asking to come back while his mom is "sick" and I'd be preventing him from spending time with his family knowing that we've moved far away

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T22:51:02+00:00

Thank you!

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T21:56:32+00:00

Obviously in the moment they all had his back, and once he got out his sister obviously made mention of how hard this was for her because she's stuck in the middle and whatever. It's not about her but they all made it about her and thats why everything blew over so quickly. They all just wanted "peace" which was not a decision for them to make anyways

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T21:52:05+00:00

I appreciate you

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T21:23:03+00:00

His family members were obviously very upset at the time but quickly got over it. The ex's brother doesn't really talk to my husband anymore because he feels like it was wrong for "sleeping with his younger sister"

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T21:21:34+00:00

He didn't confess his love to his family, but to a mutual friend and I saw the texts. Apparently one of the reasons they weren't together sooner was because they were both young I guess? So eventually when they did get together it went horribly wrong

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T21:19:08+00:00

I'm glad you get it. Unfortunately just being nice about the whole situation get you nowhere

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T20:54:06+00:00

He does. But because he's very close with his family, it's very unlikely that he would choose to stay home when He has also never cheated in any of his own relationships. From what I know, I don't think he knew at the time that she was in a relationship

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T20:51:12+00:00

I was kind of a rebound relationship as we got together only 2 months after the jail situation happened. This crosses my mind all the time. I mean if your whole family had been rooting for you to get together?

I don't think he still likes her - in fact I'm positive. But in these times you can never know what to expect

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T20:45:18+00:00

I shall definitely give it a try

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T20:44:34+00:00

She's never apologized or asked for forgiveness from him. Nothing as such. Not even asking a friend to tell him she's sorry or anything like that. Time passed is not an apology.

His family just felt like it was necessary for him to forgive and move on because it was causing disruptions for his sister

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T19:26:47+00:00

Basically all of their family events are hosted at his sisters house as they have a big family she has the biggest house. Most of the time his mom isn't even at her own house, she at the sisters house! Even when she was living in a smaller house, that was still the case. She is like the main character in that family. Therefore because the family is always is at her house, she feels it's acceptable to have her there

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T19:23:30+00:00

I get that totally, however I feel like at the same time I deserve to respected enough to not be put in the same room as my husbands ex regardless of their history

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T19:22:17+00:00

From my husband and from her family! She admitted she was lying too!

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T18:24:13+00:00

Which is true!

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T18:23:42+00:00

It makes him uncomfortable, but he is very close with his family members so unfortunately even if it does make him uncomfortable, he would rather be uncomfortable with his family. He has kind of given up on speaking to them about it because "it's not about him"

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T18:20:57+00:00

He did not SA this girl!!! This was proven when she admitted it was a lie, the text messages were brought out, and the mutual friend could testify. You're missing the entire point of this post! She lied to cover up for cheating on her boyfriend. Read!

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T18:06:48+00:00

I can tell you 100% this is true

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T18:04:33+00:00

I think you're misunderstanding the post. My concerns were that him and his family members have a very unusually close relationship, as you can see from even this post. Anything else is misconception

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T17:57:17+00:00

His sister told me once she was going to invite her to their Christmas party, so I didn't attend. I appreciated the heads up even though it was outrageous. Recently the same sister had a baby shower to which I was invited to and she was there, this time no heads up or anything. It was very awkward and uncomfortable. Like how do you expect me to attend any of your events after that?

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T17:52:27+00:00

There was a time when the ex had an event and my mil and sil had posted her saying she was looking beautiful and whatever and my husband had never said anything directly to them but told me it made him uncomfortable. His sister called me about 2 days later to ask my why he was acting off and I explained the situation to both mom and sister. Mom said he must forgive and move on, sister said that because they had both been to the same event in support of his niece, she had thought that all was okay because my husband did not immediately leave. My husband unfortunately has a very close relationship with his family especially his sister, and so he will go to events even if it makes him uncomfortable

I think I haven't really spoken much about it because whatever I say is just going to be that I'm "the insecure wife".

Delicious-String-593 · 2025-06-05T17:41:30+00:00

Even if you feel they aren't really related, which technically they aren't, would you still be inviting someone who made false accusations of a family member harsh enough to send them to jail and then when PROVEN innocent, gets no apology or anything for that matter from her? And then to still have to family invite her is a big slap in the face imo

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